Archive for January, 2009

How To Get a Girl To Kiss You – What You Are Doing Wrong!

Jan 31

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, Dating, seduction | No Comments

Fact or Fiction?

Fact or Fiction?

Many guys want to know the secret about how to get a girl to kiss you so they can take things to the next level. Imagine having the charm and charisma that overpowers a woman with you supreme manliness and just drives them crazy with desire to plant their lips on yours.

Well guess what! That is not going to happen!

Sorry to burst your bubble but this is not the way the world works in 99% of all cases because real men kiss women, women are attracted to real men, waiting for a kiss is pointless because you must take charge!

I may sound like some irate drill sergeant but when I found out there were guys out there just waiting and wondering why nothing would happen I had to speak out. The real question is not how to get a girl to kiss you but how to approach a girl and plant a kiss that gets reciprocated … that’s the trick.

Does this sound scary? Does this sound out of your depth? If so do not worry because so many guys who have amazing skills with women started out the same way but learnt over time exactly what women want and how to change their thinking to become the alpha male (I hate that term but it does apply) without trickery or deception just a slight change in attitude.

Here is one tip, the first kiss on a date or ever is totally over hyped and a distraction from everything else. The best ay to do it is get it over with quickly … when you feel there is an opportunity you have to take it and live with the consequences which are usually … NONE! If the opportunity was there they wanted you to do this. Another tips if you are feeling a little cheeky is to tell them “You can kiss me now” with a wink and even point at your cheek or something. That means she might kiss you and if she doesn’t you can make light of it or whatever you want.

If you want to know how to get the confidence to do all this and you still feel out of your depth click below to find complete guides that have turned nervous shy guys into chick magnets with a little information and lots of practical application.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/dating/dating-advice/

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6 Hot Tips on How to Seduce Women

Jan 28

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, Dating, seduction | 1 Comment

image plays a major role in seduction

Image plays a major role in seduction

Every man wants that amazing ability to be able to met, approach and seduce women that the movie stars and in fact many other regular guys seem to have. The trouble is many men give up on trying to improve this in themselves because they think they have to be rich and attractive and be born with some inbuilt charisma to do this. This is wrong, anyone can be seductive if they lean how and these 5 tips on how to seduce women can get you started!

1. Confidence

You probably have heard this one again and again and guess what … I am going to tell you once more because this is vital to seducing and bedding any woman. Women are attracted to confident men who appear in control because they are hardwired biologically to find strong men who will be good mates and providers attractive even if they are just looking for a fling too!

2. Dress Sense

As obvious as this is why do so many men pay less attention to this than they should? You do not need to be James Bond in a tuxedo but dress well for the event or location you are in and pay attention to details like ironing, the right fit, color and so forth.

3. Hygiene

Another item that means a LOT to women that some men ignore to their peril. You should look and smell nice, brush your teeth, floss, clean your ears, shave or trim your beard and take care of your hair. You do not need to be a metro-sexual if this seems to put you off just take care of your hygiene and appearance is all.

4. Learn to Approach

The first vital step in seducing women is the approach, you have one chance to impress immediately to get a foot in the door so to speak so you can move on to the next stages of seduction, this is a complex issue however and is not covered in as much depth in this article.

5. Think from Their Point of View

Another big mistake men make is to purely think from their own perspective. When engaging a woman in conversation and seduction do not just think of how you want to do things think of what she might want. This is different for every women but just doing your own thing may not be what THEY want so find out what sort of women they are and what they might want and exploit that for amazing benefits!

6. Take Charge

If you have managed to impress and have established a rapport with the women you wish to seduce then you must take charge of the situation, this does not mean forcing things or coming on too strong but you must make your intentions clear enough and be able to suggest to the lady to move on to something more be it to get her phone number, organize a date or even leave right now together depending on the situation. You can not let the opportunity pass and you can not wait for her to send every signal or to ask herself because that is a major turn off for women!

7. Keep Trying

If you do all these tips on how to seduce a women you may still get rejected or you may still stumble and screw something up but you know what … most of those other guys who are swamped with women did not just get there by force of charisma overnight, they LEARNED how to seduce women by making mistakes and fixing them and discovering bit by bit their strengths and what makes women tick.

If you want more information on how to seduce a women but do not want to stumble around in the dark for too long click below to find guides written by dating and seduction experts that can expand on confidence, the approach and exactly how women think so you are armed with every bit of information you need to be the person you want to be with women.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/dating/dating-advice/

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How to Attract a Girl Through Body Language

Jan 27

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, Dating, seduction | 6 Comments

Relaxed Confidence It Attractive to Women

Relaxed Confidence It Attractive to Women

Approaching and attracting girls not an easy thing to do for most guys these days it seems as there no set rules in dating and women feel more empowered to be picky. In this arena the ones who know how to attract a girl through body language have a distinctive edge over those blind to such subtle moves because it is something primal and hardwired into our biology that comes to the fore when body language is used to attract and seduce.

There are a thousand tricks that you can use when applying attracting body language but the core concepts remain the same which is that your body language should exude an air of confidence and manliness!

These are linked concepts but slightly different.

Confidence is all about showing you are in control of the situation, it is often as simple as having an absence of insecurity such as fidgeting, trying to have too much personal space, darting eyes, looking down and so forth. It does not mean you need to strut or swagger that is off the scale and obviously overboard but if you want to appear confident you need to have a steady gaze and be comfortable in whatever situation you are in. Women are attracted to confident men who are in control because this is a primal element of being a good mate who can provide for them which they probably do not even realize but that is just the way humans are!

Manliness is about sexuality, it follows that if a girl is attracted to confident body language this is manly and this is true. You can also accentuate that by not being afraid to flirt by standing in masculine ways to show off your body and even yes your crotch as crass as that may seem. Subtle is the key but men not afraid to be proud of their body and manhood are seen as sexy even if you are not the best looking guy in the world without the best physique either … it is all about perception.

There is more to attraction than knowing how to attract women through body language as they will only get you part way, you need to know how to approach, how to talk, how to read group dynamics, how to read their reactions and much, much more and you need a game plan too. To find out more details on attracting women no matter who you are click below to find out more.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/dating/dating-advice/

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How to Catch Your Wife Cheating – 3 Investigation Tips

Jan 25

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, Catch a Cheat, Cheating | No Comments

Suspect her of cheating?

Suspect her of cheating?

How to catch you wife cheating can be an awful process to go through but for men who suspect they have a cheating spouse the need to know and be sure is an immediate concern as the not knowing is often worse than finding out the truth.

The reason for this is that if you do not have proof you will constantly be thinking “is my wife cheating” and the anxiety and paranoia can destroy your marriage even if you might actually be mistaken! The point of trying to catch a cheating spouse is that you can at least have the whole story and be able to move on, confront them with facts or whatever action you want to take … but you can take it with more confidence. The trust is already destroyed in your relationship if you know or just suspect so stop wondering is she cheating and find out for sure for everyone’s benefit.

How to catch my wife cheating then you ask?

Private investigators can do this with a wide variety of methods but if you pay attention you can do this on your own as long as you keep a calm disposition, a logical frame of mind and be aware of what she is doing and saying. Some techniques that find clues and proof are listed below:

  • 1. Digital Communications – One of the most important ways to catch a cheating spouse is to investigate the digital ‘paper trail’ that we all leave in this modern age of cell phones, emails, internet dating sites, social networking sites and more. Cell phones are a good source of phone numbers to investigate and SMS messages to spy on and the home computer (or work computer) can contain emails, internet site histories, internet cache, or if they are sloppy just bookmarks to suspect sites. If this proves to be a dead end and too clean they may realize you might be looking and deleting everything to cover their tracks … this may not be the end as there is software than can track peoples movements on a computer without being detected that could be of use.
  • 2. Bank accounts – Money is often needed when in an affair as a cheat often gives gifts, pays for motel rooms, dinners and so forth. While a woman is often harder to track as men tend to do the paying anomalies can be found in credit card statements and bank accounts statements. Payment to expensive restaurants, motels or even to buy birth control or sexy underwear you have never seen might raise a flag. Also large sums of money withdrawn from ATMs may be in indication that they are trying to pay for cash on things so they cannot be traced in this way and can be a vital clue.
  • 3. Time – Time is the most important asset to a cheating spouse as they need time to be with their lover and this is something you need to track. Where are they? Why did they take so long to get home from work? Why is nothing done when she said she would be cleaning all day? These are some questions to ask yourself but remember not to be too direct or to get too nosey on this matter until you have more proof because this can cause more problems in the long run.

While it may be hard to stay unemotional during this period it is vital to do so when you set ask yourself how to catch my wife cheating. Without expert advice though you can make some serious mistakes that can damage things further and make it harder to catch them cheating.
If you want to avoid these pitfalls and prove their guilt (or their innocence!) click below to find guide written by experts on catching a cheating spouse that can give you step by step instructions to end the anxiety.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/affairs-cheating/

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