Archive for January, 2009

Fix Your Sexless Marriage – Book Review

Jan 14

Posted by James Fargo in Reviews, sex, Sexless Relationships, Uncategorized | No Comments

The frustration, shame and hurt that comes from a marriage that is lacking in physical intimacy can do more than hurt your self-esteem; it can bring on depression, effects the lives of your children if you have any and according to recent studies and statistics it can be a major part in decisions about divorce too.

This can be quite a dire state of affairs for a married couple but if it was so easy to fix surely you would have done it by now right? The problem is it is NOT easy to fix for many reasons such as:

  • Communication Difficulties
  • Resentment
  • Fear
  • Self Blame
  • … and more.

This is where you need help, this is where you need ammunition to fight this rut in your marriage and bring it back on track to be happier, healthier and full of wonderful, hot, passionate sexy SEX!

Enter “Fix Your Sexless Marriage” or “Get him/her in the mood” as it is also called written by Kate Dixon.

This e-book could be your key to unlocking the door to a more passionate marriage not because it will give you the information to directly turn your man or woman into lusty spouses but because it will change the way you live, think and feel about YOURSELF first and foremost which is the psychological secret to turning around a sexless marriage. Sounds too good to be true? Read on to see why it works …

At first we were skeptical of this e-book as you might well be too and acquired a copy of it which then made us realize there wee TWO guides, one specifically for men and one specifically for women. This piqued my interest and prompted me to delve in further to the guides.

Again I was not overly impressed to start with, the introduction and first section seemed like a little too much common sense and did not add much more than you would find anywhere else but this quickly changed the further I read.

While a lot of it was common sense Kate Dixon had the foresight to set the scene first and gently ease the reader into the meatier chunks of the guide which may well become overwhelming and perhaps even insulting to those not prepared to hear the solid gold advice she dispenses later in the book.

With a great mix of very practical measures you can take which seamlessly tie in with the underlying psychological problems that are the root cause of a sexless relationship this guides is not only great for rekindling the sex drive of your partner but it will give you an understanding of how your partner actually thinks from their perspective and how, by adjusting your own actions, beliefs and ideas for the betterment of your own physical and mental health … you will indirectly light a fire in their lovemaking furnace and get theirs and your libido pumping again.

For great information in a no-nonsense, practical and easy to read style and having a seperate guide both men and women Kate Dixon’s guide to fixing your sexless marriage has earned our highest score. Our only warning is the first few chapters are a little on the slow and common sense side but are a good setup for the rest which can have you changing your marriage sex life for the better even if you are fearful, have communication problems with your spouse or feel too hurt to overcome this.

Not only that it comes with a 100% money back guarantee which means you have nothing to risk but the chance to rekindle your sex life!

Click here for more information on “Fix your sexless marriage”

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The G-Spot – Love making Techniques to Give Her Amazing Orgasms

Jan 12

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G-spot Orgasms are the Holy Grail of Female Climax

Women are amazing creatures compared to men when it comes to orgasms. For instance did you know that women can have many different types of orgasms depending on circumstance and technique?

Well if you have any idea of this then you may also know that the g-spot orgasm is considered the more powerful and enjoyable to females, however finding the g-spot is not that well known and g-spot love making techniques are not expressed very well so here is a quick guide to give your woman an amazing g-spot orgasm!

  • Find the G-spot – To be clearer the g-spot is actually an area of a zone within the woman’s body that is located about 2 inches or so inside the vagina on the top side. It feels like a slightly ribbed bump similar to the top of your mouth in some ways to draw a comparison.
  • Stimulate The G-spot – Now I imagine you are thinking how can you use your penis to stimulate that area in the best way but this may not be the best idea if you are looking to give her a g-spot orgasm. Some women find it very difficult to achieve this sort of orgasm from intercourse in fact for various reasons out of your control so if you want to experiment with this it is best to use your fingers for the best chance of success.
  • IMPORTANT! Before G-spot Stimulation – Before you start prodding, poking and rubbing the g-spot know this! Most women need to have their clitoris stimulated before you move in for the g-spot, this allows them to be more excited, wetter and more aroused so it is easier to achieve the orgasm. However the clitoris may become TOO sensitive after a time to touch so communicate with your women as you go.
  • Best Positions for this G-spot Love Making Technique – Basically you will need good access for your hand and something that is comfortable because it can take some time. It is also recommended it be stable because your woman can thrash around in pleasure and make you love control too! Try lying next to her as she lies on her back and you use your strongest arm to stimulate her OR get her to get into a doggy style position while you kneel behind her. Both give you all the advantages you need.
  • G-spot Stimulation Techniques – Once everything else is in place it is quite simple to apply a good technique by rubbing your finger along the g-pot by bending the finger in a ‘come here’ motion within her. start slowly and lightly with the finger massage but build it to a stronger (but not rough) level to what she finds best.
  • Monitor Her Enjoyment – Sometimes it can be hard to judge if she is really enjoying this and if communication is difficult it is best to watch for body language: Heavier breathing, gripping you tightly, moving about and moaning are all good though if she is thrashing too much you might be overdoing it while it is too sensitive! There is a way to make this even more pleasurable however … read on.
  • Increasing The Power of the G-spot Orgasm – Nothing makes a woman’s orgasm gain in power and pleasure like prolonged intense foreplay! While this may not be the biggest secret around there is another aspect … women get bored with the same foreplay every time. To really give your woman the best experience in the bedroom for the long term variety with new and exciting ideas and subtle romance can give them the mental shove to turn an enjoyable orgasm to a mind-blowing one because of your improved g-spot love making techniques!

So if you want this great sexual power click below to find all the information you need to turn enjoyable sex to amazing, mind-blowing sex for both of you.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/sex/spicing-up-your-sex-life/

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Healing After the Affair – 3 Tips to Overcome Infidelity in a Relationship

Jan 12

Posted by James Fargo in Affairs, Articles, Dealing With Affairs | 2 Comments

Healing after an affair can be difficult

Healing after an affair can be difficult

Affairs can tear the fabric of a relationship wide open and destroy the bond of trust that is the strongest force for keeping people together. Healing after the affair therefore is vital to mend broken trust and much to the surprise of many couples can reforge their marriage into something much stronger than before the affair.

How can surviving an affair lead to a better marriage? These 3 tips may explain the process…

1. Communication

Many marriage counselor have proven that couples who do not talk about the affair are statistically worse off that those who do. While it may seem like the hardest thing in the world to talk about when you are so hurt and angry the only way to move forward is to communicate your problems and listen to their reasons for their terrible choice. To be able to do this though you need to be able to control your anger and bitterness or such conversations will be negative or explosive and nothing will be learned.

2. Understanding

Through communication of the marital affair you can gain an understanding of the reasons behind it. This does not excuse their actions at all but without understanding these things you are not truly able to talk about the right things and maybe angry and hurt at things that you should not be. Understanding also comes in the form of knowing what was wrong with your relationship before the affair that might have led them to an affair which sometimes means you have to look at your own actions as well … again not an excuse for their actions, they made the choice but if you want to regain trust and heal your relationship after an affair you must be honest with yourself.

3. Change

Once you have an understanding of the affair and the relationship problems that might have been simmering before it you can actually start to take action, forgiveness can take time but building a better relationship from this event is the best thing you can do from a bad situation and healing after an affair will follow from this!

Obviously there is a lot more to healing from an affair so for more help click below to find guides written by expert marriage councilors that can offer you a roadmap to recovery allowing you to get past the hurt and bring love and happiness back to your life.

http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/affairs-cheating/

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Romantic’s Guide to Popping the Question – Book Review

Jan 11

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Marriage, one of the biggest steps you will take in life and it all starts with popping that question. However just bending the knee and asking ‘Will you marry me?’ has been done so many times before everyone is looking for something new, creative and unique to make this occasion special and worth remembering the rest of your lives.

So with that in mind does “The Romantic’s Guide to Popping the Question” give you what you need to make an unforgettable marriage proposal?

Yes & no.

No, only because this book is not a do-it-yourself step by step guide because that would generate the most bland and non-unique proposals; this is a book for inspiration and ideas not cookie cutter clones.

To get these inspirational thoughts and ideas the book has 101 stories of unique and special proposals. Each is a gem of a story that will get you thinking about what really makes a marriage proposal special ranging from the expensive and elaborate to extremely low budget but equally as good.

In fact long after I had decided on what to put in this review I kept turning pages to see how the next story could possibly be more imaginative and creative but I kept hitting on great ones such as the horseback proposal with a different twist, the unique way to propose in a cinema and story number 13 had me just saying “wow!”.

Oh, and what gave this book and extra star for this review was the 25 WORST marriage proposals that horrified and amused at the same time. Reading these may in fact be more beneficial to your own plans than the good ones!

The only issue I have is the good stories are often too good but do not let this put you off. While these are the cream of the crop it is not something you need to top just some great food for thought when deciding what you want to do.

So if you are planning on proposing or know someone who is and might want to help them out this is an outstanding collection to inspire and motivate you to make it something brilliant and not bland!

Click here to learn more about “The Romantic’s Guide to Popping the Question”

Is Your Marriage Becoming Sexless? Advice For Women Facing a Sexless Marriage

Jan 10

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, sex, Sexless Relationships | 1 Comment

Marriage without the intimacy and release of sex becomes a dull and fragile thing which can destroy a good marriage by sucking the joy and closeness out of what should be an amazing experience in love; physically, spiritually and mentally. If all these great things are enabled by making love then why is your marriage becoming sexless? There are a few conclusions women will come to when trying to define this problem but unfortunately most of them are wrong!

Many women take the path of self loathing believing that their husband does not find them attractive anymore; perhaps they think they have put on weight or do not have time to dress up anymore or they think that whatever fire of passion that was there has gone out because they are too familiar or that life is hard. In any case the wife blames herself which is terrible for mental health and confidence which becomes another issue. Why this is so wrong is that men appreciate confidence in their women just as women like confidence in men, a wife who wallows in self pity because she feels unattractive becomes the thing she does not want to be psychologically and eventually physically driving home a sexless marriage complex that infects both partners

The opposite spectrum are women who blame their man, perhaps they suspect him of having affairs or that he has become impotent and lost his sex drive. This can lead to resentment and sometimes to the wife having affairs as revenge or as a release which only makes matters much worse in a sexless marriage!

So what is the REAL reason your marriage is becoming sexless?

This is a complex issue but what many marriage counselors and therapists have found over the years is that men who stop having sex with their wives are rarely having affairs and nearly always still love their partner very much. What does this mean? It means the problem is more often than not the mans and often it is psychological.

Do you fear your marriage is headed for a break up over a lack of sex?
If so, you need to know you CAN turn this around!
Click below to find out how you can get a passionate and happy marriage and put an end to cold bedsheets and lonely nights
http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/sex/sexless-marriages

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Want Better Lovemaking? – 7 Mistakes To Avoid When Making Love

Jan 8

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, sex | 2 Comments

Everyone wants to have great, hot, steamy sex every time but the reality is that sex in a long term relationship can get a bit stale. Better lovemaking becomes the goal of many couples in this situation who frantically look for new things to try but end up making some bad lovemaking mistakes that actually makes their experience less than what it was before!

In the interests of better love making everywhere here are some of the most common mistakes that lovers tend to making in their quest for better sex.

1. Being Too Scared/Embarrassed To Talk About New Things

This is all too common and really shouldn’t be as the person we are making love to should be the person we can communicate with about these things best! Sometimes we may be worried about what they may think however but for the most part your partner will crave new things too so go ahead and ask! It does not need to be crude or kinky but there are thousands of ways to add excitement and passion to your lovemaking that you can explore only if you talk and become comfortable with it!

2. Convincing Them To Have Sex

Oh boy, men mainly make this mistake, but sometime women too! If your lover is not in the mood for sex as they are too tired or distracted then trying to talk them into it is not going to work. Instead you have to raise their arousal levels slowly because when the body becomes sexually interested it releases adrenaline into the system giving energy to make love.

  • Ladies – If your man seems disinterested in sex but you need some love don’t just expect a man to jump at the chance if they really are tired. Instead pay some attention to his manhood by fellatio or by hand. Men are also visual creatures so wearing something sexy or nothing at all will help! An interesting point is that a man’s testosterone levels are highest at 9-10 AM during the day so this is the best time to get him turned on.
  • Men – Women are very different from us, do not rush in to the obvious sexual areas to turn them on, leave the breasts and crotch alone and concentrate on looking into her eyes, kissing her neck lightly and stroking area near the obvious sexual ones gently. Go slow and when they react positively move to kissing the mouth and so on.

3. Rushing Foreplay To Get To Intercourse

Again many people look at men as the main offenders here but sometimes women do the same and both end up missing out on something amazing. Did you know that lot’s of foreplay actually adds to the intensity of an orgasm for both men AND women?
The more you kiss, touch, caress and so forth before the act of intercourse the more aroused we become and more feel good chemicals in our body are produced or build up for the climax. This means that it is ALWAYS a good idea to just slow it down a little and enjoy playing some games with each other and pleasuring them without intercourse for as long as you can before you just have to move on!

4. Getting Sex Toys Or Porn For Your Lovemaking

There is a time and a place for these things but sometimes we tend to rush into these things to soon when we hit a rough patch sexually and it backfires.
Why? Because you do not your lover to end up looking more forward to the plastic toy or watching the porn than actually finding pleasure in each others bodies! Before you include any of these things you need to know how to please your partner in all ways before introducing something else … use these things as spice and variety not as a central part of your lovemaking.

5. Trying To Climax Your Woman From Just Intercourse

Ok Guys and girls listen up. Men, you might feel less of a man if you can not satisfy your girl from intercourse but the reality is that this is not always going to happen and it is not your fault! Some women can not achieve orgasm through intercourse even and those that can sometimes have difficulty depending on a range of factors including the time of the month, hormone levels, mood and so on.
Girls, by the same token do not put pressure on men to make you orgasm from intercourse as there are many other ways to climax if you let your man try some things!
One of the best ways to do this is by mastering the art of cunnilingus (going down on your women). If done right all pressure is off you on the lovemaking because you can make her climax with just your mouth and tongue.

6. Trying For Simultaneous Orgasms

This is seriously overrated, instead of being some mystical moment of combined pleasure where you come as one it ends up being a labor of timing and holding off and stuffing around and when it does happen … that connection is not actually there.
Instead you should focus completely on satisfying the woman’s needs first because women take a lot longer and are harder to climax than a man most of the time. Once you both learn to give totally to the other in lovemaking it becomes even more intense as the connection comes from being able to give such an experience and take it in with all your senses.

That’s the secret.

7. Do What Works Best … Every time

A little sarcasm there … sorry! While you might understand you need to break out of a routine for better lovemaking some people are afraid to vary too much thinking if it ain’t broke why fix it? The reason it ‘wear and tear’ to take the machine metaphor a step further, while it may not break or fail a boring sex life even if it is still enjoyable can have dire effects on your relationship especially if you also make mistake number one.
Instead be open to change a bit at a time, no need to try new things all the time every time but without spice and variety and excitement sex loses that spark that brings couples together so closely at the beginning of a relationship.

So what is the secret to better lovemaking? The answer is having enough knowledge, tips and ideas to spice up your sex long into the future because the only way to recreate the excitement and enthusiasm that we once had is to make it new again in small ways every time.

For more information that can give you this repertoire click here to find out more on how to have better lovemaking!

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The Art of Approaching – Book Review

Jan 8

Posted by James Fargo in Dating, Reviews | No Comments

The most important aspect of seduction and the dating game is being able to easily meet the kind of woman you WANT to get to know better. However most guys do not really know how to do this and end up tongue-tied, blurting out something really stupid or even worse just freeze up completely as they are paralyzed by fear.

Fear of rejection, Fear of humiliation and even Fear of success and then not knowing what to do!

The good news is that this fear can be controlled and being able to meet, approach and engage women can become second nature to any man as long as he has the skills to do it.

“The Art of Approaching” is one such guide that can give you all the information you need to do this. As the author Joseph Matthews says in his book “Meeting women is not something you are born to, it is a science, a skill and therefore can be learned by anyone who puts their mind to it.” … from there it is quite apparent that Joseph knows what he is talking about and goes on to establish this fact with authority because the content of this guide is absolute dating gold!

This is the most comprehensive book on attracting women we have seen so far and so well written it is engaging and quite entertaining from beginning to end as Joseph includes many stories (some incredibly personal) from his own life as he initially bumbled his way from being a typical loveable loser to a supreme pick up artist.

The real meat of the book however is that it basically gives you a step-by-step method that can have you meeting tons of beautiful women that you perhaps never thought you had a chance with, but now you can … and will; Just some of the ideas it covers are:

  • Meeting a woman
  • Attracting a women
  • Picking up the subtle clues that signal if she likes you
  • and most importantly creating CONFIDENCE in yourself which can have you immune to rejection and uncertainty

Author Joseph Matthews says
“I used to be completely hopeless with women. I was too afraid of rejection to ever talk to a woman I found attractive. But through much trial and error, I discovered a way to overcome my fear and meet the kind of women I enjoy. I wrote this book to share my methods and hard work so that other guys don’t have to go through what I did to get good with women. I wanted it to be the ultimate starter-guide for men looking to improve their love life, and judging by the amazing emails I’m getting from readers who can now meet and attract any woman they choose, I think I succeeded.”

The thing we liked most about this guide was its no BS attitude and its focus on empowering yourself as a man before you focus on the women.

This is powerful stuff because it has the dual effect of giving confidence to yourself which acts as the best form of attracting women and it conquers the FEAR reflex that is the downfall of so many men. It also brushes aside the trickery, deception and corniness that some other guides try to teach and it goes deeper than its competitors who preach the same things especially in respect to confidence and a change of belief sets that is holding you back.

A quick summary of the major chapters include:

  • The Art Of Body Language
  • The Art Of Confidence
  • The Art Of Approaching
  • The Art Of Flirting
  • The Art Of Storytelling
  • The Art Of Being Social

This e-book has passed the test to become our highest rated dating guide because of its practicality, usability, insight and even the entertainment value that it will give you. Joseph is also so confident his guide will help you he offers a money back guarantee if you are not satisfied so there is no risk to you at all, only the chance at meeting great women with ease.

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Mens Health Info – Website Review

Jan 7

Posted by James Fargo in Male Sexual Health, sex | No Comments

According to recent statistics nearly 40% of all men suffer from some form of premature ejaculation making it a bigger problem than most people think. Despite these statistics that Men’s Health Info offers it is still seen as a shameful and embarrassing condition making online, anonymous treatment the preferred method for more and more men who feel they are not satisfying their partners.

That being said there are a LOT of self help books, cures, potions and ointments online that promise men with these problems the world but many do not deliver which makes Men’s Health Info a stand out from the rest. Why? Read on.

Firstly when you sign up for treatment through this site you do not just receive a downloadable guide like many other self help sites. While guides can be very helpful, Men’s Health Info offers more than that, it is actually a site that has compiled resources from a number of sources over the internet and only choose the ones that offer a full service, not just information. These services ask you to enter information about your condition and give you back personalized treatment plans that have been proven to work.

Secondly, tying in with the personalized plan, this site and the services they promote understand that everyone is different and that there are different level of premature ejaculation ranging from mild over-excitement to quite severe sexual dysfunction. This means that you will only get treatment for your own problems not anyone else’s.

Also, the information given about PE on their site is very helpful and scientific which allows you to see the scope of the issue and gives an idea of what sorts of exercises and methods you will need to use to have longer lasting sex. This information is in text form, visual form with pictures, diagrams and animations and videos as well.

Overall this has proven to be the most comprehensive site for premature ejaculation cures we have seen and with its focus on service you can get the personalized treatment you may need without the embarrassment of making an appointment with a doctor or therapist allowing you to overcome your short fuse and be able to have great sex for both you and your lover.

Click here to visit ‘MensHealthInfo’

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