How much time do you need before you tell someone you are dating thinks you are ?one?? Year? Month? Just a few weeks?
Relying to the scientific journal ?archives of sexual behavior?, we should be able to tell if the person we are dating is really, really have less than 10 seconds, at least if that person is a man. Because if a man looks into the eyes of women over 8.2 seconds, says the magazine, they are amazed.
But it seems more a man looks into the eyes of women, he dating, more interested in him, the same thing, apparently, does not apply to the fair sex…
Studies:
Researchers have used hidden cameras to track eye movements of 115 students, when they met and talked with the actors and actresses. They then asked the students to rate how attractive they found the man to whom they spoke with.
Results:
The study showed a sharp difference between men and women who were tested.
Men in the study had a woman look at an average of 8.2 seconds when they discovered that they are beautiful, down just 4.5 seconds on average if they did not find them particularly attractive.
Women, however, looked at their male colleagues at the same time or they did not find them attractive.
Why the difference?
The researchers concluded that, while men use eye contact to find form and fertile mates that women are more careful to draw unwanted attention, as they can the risk of unwanted pregnancy and can become a single mother.
What we think:
This is all very well trying to measure how long the person we are dating looks at us, but also other environmental moments could be at work that could lead to a big misunderstanding, if we study this seriously when dating.
The problem with this result…
Although non-stop look may be one way to find out if people we love, dating in, continuous watch for more than eight seconds, you can come across as a little unnerving to a woman (count it – eight seconds is actually a very long look in the eye someone).
And if you are a woman who wants to show people you meet that you are looking for? Evolution seems to remove our ability to give clear signals of course if we could attract the wrong type of mat.
How to give the right cues when you love someone
Body language is a very good way to show that you feel like you are a man or a woman. By simply pressing on the handle, or if you are a man, press the lower back to bring your lady to the door, for example, speaks volumes.
Little bit of physical contact to give a strong signal to the dating partner that you feel comfortable in their presence and well-prepared to treat them physically – a great start for a more informal kind of relationship.
Smiling is another great way to show you like the company of your dating partner, and is easy to forget to do this if you have too much focus on making a good impression in your own words – in this situation, actions actually speak louder.
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