I’ve gotten this question quite a few times from different men over the years, and I have to say, that at one point in time, I could totally relate to asking this question. These are men that just want to know how to attract women.
Why do women reject me, but still want to be friends?
It’s about the worst string of words that a man can hear from a woman that he is attracted to. She likes you, but just not in that way. Well, you and I both know, that the only way you really want her to like you IS in that way. You really don’t want to be her friend, you want to be her BOYFRIEND.
Why do women do this?
Why do they reject the guys that are GOOD to them, and seem to chase after the jerks that could care less about them, except for the occasional night filled with sex?
To fully understand this, you have to understand how female attraction works. It’s NOT a choice that they make consciously. They do not weigh out a list of pros and cons and then make the decision to be attracted to a man based on which one makes the most logical sense.
It is EMOTIONAL!
A woman is attracted to certain guys because of the emotions that they make her feel. And the emotions that she wants to feel are excitement and anticipation. Nice guys don’t make her feel these things, they make her feel COMFORTABLE. In fact, most nice guys go out of their way to make a woman feel comfortable, so much so, that they come off more like a brother than they do a potential lover.
You have to make her FEEL ATTRACTION…
I think that you already know that you need to make a woman feel attraction, the real issue is HOW do you make her feel attraction, and is this even possible for an average guy to make a woman feel this way?
Well, of course it is. You don’t have to do much more than step out your front door and you can find examples of average guys that have above average women as their girlfriends or their wives. So, of course this is possible for YOU.
What are you going to do?
The choice that you have to make RIGHT NOW, is whether or not you want to always be seen as the nice guy that makes her feel comfortable or the guy that makes her feel excitement and anticipation. This is how you are going to be able to escape the friend zone, and make a woman feel like YOU are the guy that she wants to be dating.
Then, you will NEVER hear those words again. She will not say that she just wants to be friends, she will say that she wants to be MORE than friends.