A regular, normal friendly relationship between a man and a woman can be the foundation to a strong, intimate relationship. If you have a lady friend whom you have feelings for and would want to turn her into YOUR girlfriend, you need to take careful steps to take that bond to a higher, more intimate level.
Getting out of the zone of friendship requires a careful, deliberate approach. Your lady friend is keenly aware of your bag of tricks so you have to plan your moves well. She may want you as a mere friend and would not entertain thoughts beyond that. The best advice is to make her relate your presence and her thoughts of you with positive and affirmative feelings.
The following steps guarantee you can turn your lady friend into your girlfriend.
1. Do not open up your feelings about her. If you have done so, do not mention it again. As far as she is concerned your relationship is on a friendly plane – the level where she feels comfortable with. Being vocal about your intentions would be a threat to her feelings of being at ease with you.
2. Give the impression that you are happy with your life and that you do not need her around to complete your happiness. Importantly, do not ever be around for her at all times. Make her aware that you are seeing other women and you are living a busy life. This way she sees you as worthy of being pursued.
3. Make her hear you compliment other women. Be vocal of your appreciation of the beauty of other women and make sure she hears it. This way she will be fired up to win your approval, too.
4. Share your thoughts on what you look for in a woman. Expect her to emulate these qualities without realizing it. She will WANT that you find in her the one person you are looking for. Appeal to her human nature to be competitive.
5. Make it known to her that sex to you has deeper meaning and that you appreciate more the intimacy involved. Women put a premium on intimacy in a relationship. By letting her know this you are subtly telling her you share her outlook.
6. Say that she looks cool. Tell it to her once in a while. Say aloud that you wish every lady you could have a relationship with would be as cool as her. Do not make it sound obvious you have feelings for her. Subconsciously, she will begin to entertain thoughts on how it would be like to be with you.
The most critical component in attempting to turn a lady friend into a girlfriend is to give the appearance of detachment. A woman will not be attracted to anyone who is always at her beck and call. Make it appear to her that you are busy and that you have schedules to keep with other people. This way she will be driven to crave for your attention.
If you have deep admiration for a lady friend and you want the relationship to exceed beyond friendship, it is time to put these steps into action. The friend you admire, in no time, will be your girlfriend.
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