Anything is possible If you’ve ever watched the movie “The Secret”, you know that you can have anything you want! This includes having your ex back in your arms. The following article will detail the relationship advice you need to win back the love of your ex.
First, never rebel against your ex. When they make a decision to leave you, you need to show them you gracefully accept it. Let them know it saddens you, but that you accept it. Leave them alone for a while. This is really hard to do, but you need this time to work on yourself and make yourself better for them.
If you were the one who left your ex and now regret your decision, you will still need to work on making yourself a better person for them to be with so that they take you back without much hesitation.
How to make yourself better? Go to the gym or workout. Working out will make you feel better abut yourself. You can take out your aggression on a punching bag instead of directing your anger at your ex. That will only leave you with a pile of regret.
Get your hair styled differently. Go to a trusted salon who can give you an honest opinion on a hairstyle that would flatter you better than your current one. This will make your ex think of you as a “new and exciting” person, and once they see you, they will automatically be interested in the changes you’ve made while they’ve been away.
Working out and a new hairstyle will make you look and feel a little bit better, but it’s also important to heal your sole before trying to get them back. Find something that makes you laugh… a lot. A TV show, chatting with certain friends, whatever makes you laugh like crazy for a couple of hours a day will heal your soul and make you more ready to accept your ex back into your life.
After those three things, send a funny, intriguing message to your ex. Something that will make them curious for more information, make them smile, make them laugh.
Do not do anything creepy or whiny like confessing your love, telling them you’re miserable without them, telling them you want them back, or putting a guilt trip on them for ignoring you for that time.
If you make them happy, they will realize how much fun they had with you. They will miss you. You can flirt back and forth or exchange a few funny / fun messages – but take your time and slow down the pace. Wait a day or two between each message.
Things should go well for you once your ex realizes how much you’ve changed and how they’ve missed you. After all, they’ve loved you at one point in time, so why not again?
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