How To Know If a Girl Likes You
Dating is very hard, there are many different scenarios to be thought of, but we’ll think in general for you readers. So how to know if a girl really likes you? Try these tips and clues to look out for that I’ve listed below. The worst thing you can do is get hung up on one girl. Sometimes it’s best to cut your losses and move on. As the old saying goes, “there’s plenty of fish in the sea.”
The Bare Essentials
Before you read the list there are three key things you will need. Leave out any of these three keys and forget about finding out if a girl likes you.
* Confidence
* Attention to Detail (her hair, nails, new shirt, the little things)
* Ability to Flirt
Chalk Talk
* Ask her a question! – When you ask her a question be on your toes for her response. If she responds quick with short answers, chances are she’s not that into you! However on the other hand if she responds with a long thought out answer, and then asks you a question back, you’re playing ball!
* Watch those eyes – Eye contact is a critical role in conversation, so make sure you give it to her. Take notice how she uses her eyes, if she looks at you the whole time you’re talking then she’s interested in what you have to say and is basically giving you attention. Also, if sitting across a table, see if she looks up quickly to catch a glimpse of you, if she does then this is a good sign. If she has wandering eyes, then maybe it’s time you wander your eyes to another girl and cut your losses!
* Body Language – Keep an open eye on how she’s sitting, if she’s playing with her hair while you two talk. If you two accidentally touch arms will she pull away fast or leave it there for a second? If she leave it then she just may have a thing for you romeo!
* Mimicking – Copy Cat! A great tell tale sign of interest is mimicking, for instance if you smile and then she smiles back, if you take a drink of your drink and then she just “happens” to take a drink too. These are great signs of interests, so be on the lookout.
* You’re not that funny? – So what?! Tell her any story, could be about the dumbest thing in the world, but if she pays attention and laughs then she could possibly like you. Make her laugh however you can and your sweet comb-over haircut won’t matter, she’s probably interested.
* Jealousy – Talk to other girls while you’re around her, if she’s not getting your undivided attention and she likes you, one of these things will happen. She’s either going to act jealous by getting “moody,” try to get close to you, or she’ll remain silent.
* Tease Her! – Nice guys finish last because they always have something nice to say! Girls want to be treated like princesses but they also want a man who has a macho side and can stand up for her. So show her your inner Hulk Hogan and tease her! If she teases you back then it’s a good sign she likes you back. This also shows her that you’re able to have a goofy time around her. Note: After every other tease, make sure you compliment her to off set the tease!
Closing Words of Advice
* When a girl says she’s “not interested,” take it for what it is and move on to the next one, don’t dwell on it. She’s not the girl for you.
* If she’s giving you all of the tell tale signs, but isn’t making any first moves, then go for it! Make your move, some girls are shy and there’s nothing wrong with that, tell her you like it.
* Be confident in the signs that she’s giving you and make your move. Confidence, confidence, confidence!
* If she does happen to be shy and you’ve never met her or talked to her before, keep an eye for the quick glance and then smile. That’s a good sign that she’s interested, but wants you to make the first move.
* When talking online, have confidence as well! Don’t respond too quickly, even if the answer is on the top of your head. Take time to think about what you’re going to type!
* Confident but not cockiness. Stand up tall, hold yourself well.
* Relax, and don’t try so hard, she doesn’t find that attractive. You’ll come off as needy and scare her away!
* Hit the weights! No don’t get all huge, but stay fit, reflect the type of girl that you would want. If you want a girl with a great body, then have one yourself. It makes no sense to want the girl with the great body but not be in shape yourself, why would she want a chub like yourself? Think about it!
If you’re still unsure, get some valuable help online. The way I see it it’s like this. Girls get implants because guys like a nice rack, it’s their way of attracting men, it helps and works for them. So for guys, think of the books and programs as your “rack.” You’re merely using it to gain confidence in yourself, and to attract the opposite sex right? Funny analogy but it makes sense.So do it, you’ve got nothing to lose since you don’t have a women anyways, I mean you are reading this article…haha just kidding guys. All jokes aside I hope you’ve enjoyed my article, hopefully I’ve helped you out! Post a comment!
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-Chris Altamirano
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