If you want to develop extreme rapport with a woman you have just met, you eventually want your vibe to be in sync with hers. The vibe is the vibrational energy you are transmitting to other people, almost like your own radio frequency.
Knowing how to sync your vibe is an important part of your overall social skills to meeting women.
During the first approach and interaction, your ideal vibe to be slightly higher than hers; this demonstrates high-energy and all the other elements that is linked with generating attraction like humor, dominance, and cockiness. Eventually you will have to sync that vibe down before you 2 depart if you want to have a strong chance of seeing her again.
Being cocky, dominant, and the funny guy does not create the deep connection from being stranger to somebody she wants to see again. This only grabs her attention to notice you as an appealing person, and then you are confused why the next time you contact her up or try to get her to come out, she completely forgets and doesn’t know who you are, even though you two were laughing at each others’ jokes, and without a doubt having a good damn time, and you assumed just because she was having a blast with you, you got her eating out of the palm of your hand!
Why this is so? She could have been drunk or possibly been on some stimuli, but you are still just a stranger in her eyes. Why would she go through all the works of preparing herself, applying on make-up and devote times with you while she could be hanging with her friends?
In a female’s world, is way more complex than a dude. She lives in a conflicting emotional world where she has to present herself in one way to live up to society’s expectation and norm and compresses that other part of who she really wants to be.
Most guys keep up acting like the clown and fail to establish the connection, in order to avoid falling into the dreaded friend zone. This is not the case. This is being multi-dimensional. You already established yourself as this guy who was all fun and appealing to her, now surprise her with this other part of you she wouldn’t have picked up and build that deep connection.
By building deep connection with women, you will have no trouble getting her in dating you.