Are you trying to get your ex back but she is acting as crazy as a soup sandwich? Do you feel like something just isn’t quite right and nothing adds up? Has she gone from being an almost perfect girlfriend to twisting your words around and arguing with you about just about everything under the sun? Do you love her but you’re just not sure how much longer you can stand this bizarre behavior?
The truth is that her actions and behavior might be partly due to your attempts to get her back in addition to possibly the outside influence of friends, family or even another guy. It could be a jealous friend that is trying to get her best friend back. It could be another guy that has decided to befriend her and try to steal her away from you. Or it could be a possessive family member that has turned her away from you and undermined your relationship.
Either way, there is a very good chance that if you have been trying really hard to get your ex back you could be pushing her further away instead of drawing her closer to you as you had intended. Often after a breakup and ex will become very defensive and the last thing that they want to talk about is the breakup.
I know that it seems counter-intuitive but talking about the breakup and getting back together actually kills your chances of getting her back and makes her more crazy. Sure, once you had a calming effect on her but while things are all out of whack your attention and contact and wanting to get back together can make her a little nuts.
So, my suggestion is to back off, to begin with. Just let the dust settle and let her emotions return to normal. In the long run you will feel better about yourself and your ex will wind up having more respect for you when you do get back together if you’re not constantly trying to talk her back into getting back together.
But you might wonder how you will ever be able to get her back if you don’t talk to her and straighten things out. The secret is in knowing how to get her to change her mind all on her own. Without an real influence from you or any sort of convincing it is possible to get your ex to fall back in love with you again and regret the day that she broke up with you if you know what to say and what to do.
No, you’re not going to seduce her or pull any mac-daddy moves on her. The secret is in knowing how to move her emotionally and make her feel love, respect, admiration and devotion for you and you alone. Once you know the emotional hot buttons to push it is possible to have her come running back to you begging you for another chance and then you will be in control of the relationship again. You will be in the drivers seat and you’ll be the one deciding how things are going to be.