I want you to know right off the bat, that I am going to write this article a little tongue in cheek. Meaning, there is going to be some humor in it. However, you would be surprised at how many guys do ask their girlfriends or girls that they want to get with really bad questions. You know, the kind of question that changes the course of the conversation completely and is an obvious turn off? That’s the kind of questions that you need to avoid like the plague!
So, here are 3 questions that you NEVER want to ask your girlfriend:
1. (About her best friend) Don’t you think that Audrey was looking HOT tonight?
Some guys will ask a question like this out of sheer stupidity. Others will do it to kind of explore what their girlfriend is going to say. Basically, they are hoping that she is going to say YES, and then say that she is totally open to having a threesome with her. Of course, that only happens in adult films and on college campuses, lol. Seriously though, most of the time… this is NOT the kind question that you need to be asking your girlfriend.
2. Those pants look TIGHT on you, have you put on any weight?
Now sometimes this gets said out of straight up ignorance but with good intentions. Like, when you are happy that she’s gotten a little thicker below the waist and you really think it looks good to you. Problem is, she hears that and it’s like you just called her fat in a very bad way. No matter how good your intentions are, and no matter how good you think she looks with a little more weight on, don’t ask that question!
3. I’m broke, can I borrow some money to go out and have fun?
Take your alpha male status and watch it drop in an instant if you ask this question. You are kind of putting her in the provider role when you do this, and that’s not a good thing. Not if you want to keep your alpha male status going in the relationship. That doesn’t mean you can’t take a little money if she offers it to you, but asking for an allowance is not a good thing for a man to do. Well, most of the time.
Oh, the trouble that some men get into with women, and it does not just apply to your girlfriend, but with any woman you want to get with, want to date, have a hook up with. You have to know how to talk to a woman the right way, without turning her off and asking the RIGHT questions, the kind that open her up and the kind that make her want YOU.
It’s important to know what NOT to say to a woman, but it’s just as important to learn how to talk to women and ask the RIGHT kinds of questions…