When relationships end, someone almost always wants to get back together. No matter whether you broke up with the person, or were broken up with, it is still possible to get back together with an ex.
You have a lot of mutual memories about the time you still were together, and you can utilize that. We have listed here some ideas and tips which may help you to get back your ex. While all relationships are different, you should use them just as a guiding principle and customize them according to your own situation.
Often after a break up, you try not to think about your ex. This is only natural because just after the break up it may be too painful, and you are not yet ready to deal with these emotions.
However, if you want the love of your ex back, you have to be involved with their life. Even though being just friends may not sound very appealing, it is still much better than not being their life at all. Of course, this goes only if you want him or her back, and if it is realistic. Otherwise, staying friends is not necessarily a good idea.
Don’t let them forget about you, without being too intrusive. This will only annoy them and pull them farther away from you. Just be around in case they want to talk with you or need you to do something.
You can also talk with your ex’s friends and try to get them onto your side. This can be the crucial factor that eventually results you and your ex getting back together. Don’t underestimate the power of friends.
You should convince them that you are serious about getting your ex back. They can help you by talking with your ex and telling him or her about your feelings. Also, they may have some inside information about the real reasons of your break up.
In the end, the best way to get your ex back is to have a long and profound discussion with him or her. Be honest with each other and talk the things you both want with your lives. Make compromises and never try to defend. You’ll be surprised how much this can influence for your ex’s feelings about you.
Dress nicely because this tells your ex that you respect him/her. Be prepared to talk about almost anything. At first, tell honestly about your own feelings, that you still love them and want to get back together. Be willing to move slowly if that is required. When your ex starts to open up let him/her lead the conversation, and listen carefully.
Because all break ups are unique, you are the only person who can exactly determine the best ways to get your ex back. Just take the tips and tricks you find, and apply them to your own situation. Now, good luck and let’s hope you get your love back to your arms someday soon.