You are in love and had a great relationship, but now it has come to an end. You are not happy about this and want to be with him. This is not unusual, and in fact is probably way more common than you think.
You have used to have your partner around all the time and your life may feel empty without him. If you are serious about getting your boyfriend back, then read on. Here are a couple of tips to follow.
A great idea that I always suggest for getting an ex back is to first identify the reasons why the relationship failed. You could simply make a list about the potential reasons that have lead for you two to grow apart from each other. After you have identified the most important factors of the break up, you can utilize that information on getting your boyfriend back.
If there was something in you that your boyfriend didn’t like, there is a possibility he gives you another chance if you show him that you are willing to change those things. Maybe you were too clinging or jealous about him, and he felt that he couldn’t breathe freely. On the other hand, perhaps you were too self-contained when he wanted to talk with you.
Sometimes the cause is as simple as not taking care of yourself, ie. some men really like it when a woman gets regular hairdos, manicures, pedicures, etc. Some things are changed much more easily than others!
After you have gone through all the reasons that may have caused your break up, and determined which were the main ones, you can start planning your strategy of getting him back. You need to make him know that you are still interested in him and want to try again.
This will be much more easier if you have remained friends. In that case you probably see sometimes, and you can utilize those moments. Show him with your behavior that you have changed. You can also do some subtle flirting with him. However, act happy that he doesn’t think you desperately want him back.
Try to find ways you can be around him. Be interested in things and hobbies he likes to do. If he asks your advice about something, help him with the best of your abilities. Let him see that you care about him and want all the best for him. Also, there is nothing wrong about telling him what you like about him.
The idea is to show him that he is missing out on a wonderful woman. You also want to let him know that you are not exactly the same person you were before and that you are worth a second chance. He needs to see and experience how much fun he can have with you regularly if he only gives you one more chance.