Did you do something stupid and your girlfriend dumped you? Now you are thinking about the ways how to get her back. If you truly want her back you have to remember that getting her back is not a game. You can’t think that she is some kind of prize you are about to win. Because you have lost her once, you can lose her again. So, take heed to some advice on how to get your ex back.
The first thing you need to do is understand what it was that made her leave you in the first place. If it is something obvious then this is an easy step, but if it is something not so intuitive you will need to do a few things.
If the situation is still a little bit inflammable, and you don’t want to talk straight to your girlfriend, you can turn to her friends. She may have talked about your situation with her friends, and you are able to find some answers from them.
Now, let’s assume that whatever you did was not unforgivable, and hope is not totally lost. Next you have to face the situation and admit your wrong doings. Make no excuses for yourself.
If possible, sit down with your ex and discuss the issues, and what specifically you have done to cause her to break-up with you. Now, you may need to allow some time for her to cool off and reflect on your relationship before you approach her.
One way to approach your ex is also through her close friend. You can ask her to tell your ex how sorry you are, and that you want to talk with her.
When you finally have a chance to talk with her in person, really listen what she has to say. Only after that it is your turn to talk. Be sincere, and don’t toss around a macho attitude.
Do not speak at her at your place or any area you frequented. A coffee shop is always nice, or a park perhaps. If you think the conversation may become heated then select someplace with some privacy where you both can let your emotions flow.
You however, need to keep you cool and not be on the defensive. It’s alright to show some emotion. It will let her know you care. But refrain from yelling or pointing out her flaws.
The key is to listen, acknowledge and confirm what it is that caused the break-up. It’s not to listen, point out and blame her for your behavior.
So, here was some tips that should help you to get your ex girlfriend back without playing any head games. Remember that it is you who needs to correct things, not your ex.