You’re trying to cope with this new reality of a break up and it’s difficult enough, but when you see your ex girlfriend with someone else, the feelings of rejection are magnified and unbearable. You might feel like getting her back back is far and away impossible right now, especially when another man is in the picture taking all the attention away, but all hope is not lost yet and I’ll tell you why.
It’s common for people to fall into the rebound relationship trap after a break up. Your ex feels this sudden shift in their day-to-day activities and subconsciously she feels she has a new void to fill. So she goes out and looks for the most desirable or available person to fill that void AND to act as a distraction mechanism. They may very well have a rebound relationship because they miss that closeness with you and are trying to masque their pain. Another important thing that a rebound relationship does is make your ex jealous. Keep this in mind when she seems to have moved on, she may be just using it as a way to see if you still care about her.
Thing is, 90% of rebound relationships don’t work out because they work like outsourced job positions do. You outsource or hire someone to do a quick job once because they’re quick and fast and you don’t need to do a bunch of annoying interviews. Because it’s only to fill a temporary void, the minute they start demanding more time, more attention and more energy, your ex will be kicking them out the door, making it much easier for you to learn how to get a girlfriend back.
Knowing this, you can use it to your advantage. There’s no need to panic and start acting vindictive towards your ex because you don’t approve of them seeing someone new. Acting immature and showing your disapproval will only PUSH your ex towards their new love! On the other hand if you act indifferent, this might make your ex curious and they’ll be asking questions in their head like: Why doesn’t care I’m seeing someone new? He mustn’t have cared to begin with.
Believe me these questions will allow your ex girlfriend to re-evaluate your relationship and think about you. Whether she’s thinking good or bad thoughts, the fact that she’s THINKING about you is a very good sign. Girls are unlike guys in this respect, they have a tendency to over think things and tie themselves up in knots. All of this is much more effective that you exhibiting signs of jealousy, all you have to do is keep your mouth closed and act like it does not bother you.
Want to know the fast track to your ex girlfriend’s heart? Whether she’s with someone else or not, you can make her fall in love with you and have her ditch this new love faster than you can say: getting her back.