Cheating and affairs are poisonous things to relationships that even if hidden from sight completely hollow out and destroy a marriage or partnership from this inside. Even if an affair happened years ago the repercussions of this event can have haunting consequences further down the track.
The reason we use the term hollowed out is that cheating on your partner destroys one of the absolute key bonds that tie a relationship together which is TRUST.
What this means is that cheaters can still love and respect their partners and the statistics who that often times after an affair they realize just how much they DO love their wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend but no matter what other parts of the relationship is still in tact without trust this will rot away.
In fact the very essence of why this is so painful to many people is they may still be in love which makes the relationship limp along or makes breaking up so difficult. If there was no longer love left then breakup up would be the only option for many pending financial concerns and children of course.
So what can we do when we suspect our partner is cheating?
What can we do if we KNOW they are cheating?
And how do we deal with this trust issue even after an affair ends?
Being knowledgeable and informed in these situations is essential and understanding your own tangled emotions as well as your partners’ motives and emotions is vital to tread the right path to the best solution which may be very different from person to person.
To help you with dealing with these things there are many resources on the internet that can guide you and inform you at many stages of an affair. To help you find the best resource for your problems we have reviewed a number of downloadable E-Books that you can access immediately and confidentially.
Suspicion can be just as poisonous to a relationship because it breeds a lack of trust before there is any proof of cheating. It also can drive your relationship to places you do not want to go when there may be no affair happening at all! To make sure you know the truth so you can take the appropriate action you need, you need to catch your cheating partner or prove to yourself they are not cheating at all. These guides can help you do this.
If you have discovered your partner is having an affair or they have admitted it even you may be stuck in a very difficult and terrible situation that not many people are well equipped to cope with or solve. Issues of trust and love and understanding get mixed up with anger and resentment that can lead your relationship to ruin if it isnt already and may effect your mental well being for decades to come. If you want expert help on how to overcome this period of your life these guides may be able to arm you with the right information.