Finding out about your partner’s affair is a devastating blow to most people as the hurt and the loss of trust that is the binding force in a relationship is destroyed in an instant. Many men and women who decided to mend this rift find it a difficult to impossible task though as they struggle to forgive and the haunting memory and hurt from their lovers infidelity continue to destroy their marriage.
To help with this predicament we have reviewed some instantly downloadable guides that will allow you to get past the hurt and rebuild your fractured marriage. These e-books will give you the insight and communication skills to overcome the hurt and anger that haunts you and will give the building blocks to healing your relationship to create a marriage even better than before the affair.
Some readers may scoff at that last claim and while this seems impossible at this point the psychology from the experience of the expert marriage counselor authors have proven that this can be the case if you know the reasons behind the affair and how to talk about it.
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|How to Break Free From the Affair|
|The Anatomy of an Affair|
If you are in a relationship that has been through an affair but have decided that you want to stay together, but find this the hardest thing you can do and the fight to try to save your marriage seems to continue to fail then Dr Frank Gunzburg may be the one to help.
Dr Gunzburg is a marriage counsellor with 30 years experience who has seen a lot of marriages come and go and many fail and many thrive through difficult times with the spectre of the affair at their back and have a wonderful e-book that comes from his experience and research into why some couples can no get over the affair and others do and seem to be better off for it.
In this e-book the focus is on working through the problems of a relationship not just with hard work but with a 3 phase system that Dr Gunburg has formulated that has increased the likelihood of couples staying together by enormous magnitudes.
With a strong focus on rebuilding trust and dealing with turbulant emotions this e-book is very well focused on what it does and does it very well making this an essential guide for people looking for help to rebuild their relationship despite an affair for the good of their own happiness and often their children as well.
Knowing there is an affair happening in your relationship is one thing but knowing what to do when you are so upset and distraught is another. Luckily Dr Bob Huizenga has written one of the most comprehensive guides on the Internet one how to deal with an affair which gives you all the information you need to take the action that is right for you.
What is great about this guide is it’s empathy with your situation and the psychological information about the types of affairs that are most common and why each type of infidelity makes a big difference to why they have cheated and what action you should take.
The psychological expertise shown by Dr Huizenga is insightful and comes from years of being a relationship coach and infidelity researcher. This comes through professionally and without hyperbole or sensationalism making this a guide that delivers what you want and what you need if you feel lost, afraid and do not know what to do next in a relationship being destroyed by infidelity.
Dr Huizenga can help you decide whether you can save your marriage, end the affair, deal with the negative emotions and more making it most highly recommended as a resource for anyone in this difficult situation.
This guide also comes with a very useful guide on cheating, how it is done, how it is hideen and what you can do investigate it further if you need to know more about the affair.
The third e-book on dealing with affairs is written by another person with a doctorate who has studied relationships and families for years. Dr Reena Sommer has compiled a downloadable guide that focuses on affairs and why they come about much like Dr Gunzburg but has a slightly broader range of appeal for those whose relationship may not have survived an affair and the memory of infidelity makes it hard to move on with other relationships.
Dr Sommer has recieved quite a bit of acclaim for her expertise and has been featured in the New York Times, Readers Digest, ELLE, the Montel show and more. The positive message of her guide and the uplifting results are a good sign that this guide, while focusing on a terrible thing is all about understanding and overcoming but not dwelling on the past allowing readers to make the decisions right fot them in a less structured way than Dr Gunzburgs system.
The Anatomy of an Affair also comes with a few very interesting bonus downloads including custody resources and most impressivly a free 15 minute consultation with Dr Sommer which may not sound long but after reading her guide 15 minutes may be able to clarify a few things in your own personal sitation from an expert which can help many who need just that little bit more advice.
|All e-book guides reviewed on this site come with a 100% money back guarantee so if you are not satisfied with the product you can contact the publisher for a refund allowing you risk free purchases.|