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Best Tips On How To Seduce A Woman On Phone

Sep 4

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Guys are taught to go for a woman’s number when they’re in a party. Not all men, however, know what to do when a girl finally gives her number.

Getting a woman’s number is just the start of something good, so don’t celebrate yet. Your next step should be to make the same connection with her on the phone so you can land that date. Now, you need to phone her. The only question is how and when you can call. Read on for some useful tips on how to call a woman …

How to seduce a woman on phone:

Tactic #1: Use Humor. Make a woman laugh as soon as your conversation starts. Laughter makes her feel relaxed and eager to talk to you. The one thing you should avoid on the phone is making her feel bored. Crack a joke or recount a funny thing that happened that night when you met her.

If you do this right, she will think you’re the most charming guy alive.

Tactic #2: Start With a Good Story. A story will make your conversation more interesting to her. Telling a story can be a good way of preventing awkward pauses. It’s great if you can end with a cliffhanger so she has something to look forward to when you eventually go out.

Tactic#3: Use Cliffhanger technique: Once you have reached the ‘social hook point’ – here is your next task – tell her an intriguing story. However, reserve the ending (at least for the next call). This will considerably pique her curiosity, and in the process make her want to continue to talk to you.

Tactic #4: Use Hypnosis / Fractionation. If you’re looking for a good way to make a girl feel emotionally into you, you should try hypnosis. One particular hypnotic way of talking to women is fractionation. In 15 minutes, you can make a woman go through an emotional roller coaster. She will not be able to detect that you’re actually hypnotizing her. She will simply feel more and more in love with you as your conversation deepens.

But before you use this technique, consider this…

Fractionation is considered as a ‘dark art’ tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the DeadlySeduction System.

This technique is one of the most explosive seduction tactics ever invented by the seduction underground. Known only among the inner circles of master seducers, this technique is known to be able to make any woman fall deeply in love in as little as 15 minutes.

So, you must know this technique if you really want to master your success with woman.

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Being In Love Online- A Practical Guide

Aug 25

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More and more people these days are finding love online be it due to time constraints, unsociable working hours or simply the death of the community, but one thing is for sure, this is the fastest growing way to meet potential partners, however it has it’s pitfalls. Whilst online dating agencies may offer a quick way to meeting these partners, Instant Messaging using programs such as ICQ, MSN, or Odigo offer a lightning speed way of getting very intimate, very quickly. It is so quick because you can be just who you want to be when you are chatting online, no one will see you blush if you say something wrong and most importantly, it allows you to take risks that you would never dream of taking in the real world. The most powerful aspect of this all though is that we paint our own picture in our minds of what the other person is without all those non-verbal cues such as facial expressions and mannerisms that subconsciously in the real world tell us valuable things about the person. In short, with our own beautifully created perception of the person, fall for them. So why do we as intelligent human beings end up falling for people we have never even met before? The answer is simple we want to be in love, we so want to tell ourselves that the searching for our soul mate is over and with that we picture our lives in a blissful sea of coupledom, sharing our lives together. Sadly it is this haste to end our single lives that can lead to disappointment as quickly as it started.

Meeting Your online love for the first time

Sooner or later the question of actually meeting in person will come up and whilst many people would say it’s better to take your time and let the online relationship develop, I strongly believe that the sooner you do it, the better. If you leave it too long, then the impression you have built up of this person will be so deep rooted that your expectations will be far too high and you will be set for disappointment. The other point is if you have been a lot more confident chatting than you would be in real life, how are you going to be able to keep up that persona? You may end up competing with yourself. So assuming that you are both happy with the length of time the romance has been going on for and you decide to meet, what will it be like? It will be quite strange to begin with. You may find that although you have been up most nights until 5 in the morning chatting, you find it hard to talk about things in the flesh. This is perfectly natural as the two of you are having to almost re-learn the parameters of the relationship and digest the visual cues that our mannerisms and facial expressions provide. It will be a nerve racking time as we have to decide there and then if these mannerisms and even physical odours are compatible with us. If you can pass that first test, then things get a lot easier. Do however be very careful if you are traveling abroad to meet someone because if things fail at this first hurdle, then you are totally stuck on your own in a foreign country.

Passed first base, what next?

Having gone through this initial nerve racking first meeting, there is often a huge temptation to revert back to an ‘online relationship’ as it feels so much more comfortable, but I cannot stress enough to resist that temptation. Slip back into the old online chatting routine and the online persona won’t die. The transition from online to offline relationship can be extremely difficult but at all costs, you must get to know the real person from a new offline perspective and kill off any false impressions you may have had about them online. Going back to the online chatting routine may make you feel all warm and fuzzy again, but it can be an unrealistic perception of who the person really is.

In Summary

This all may seem a little negative and in some cases may not even apply, but overall, forewarned is forearmed. There are of course many people who have made a success of their relationship by Instant Messaging and some are even married now but it really pays to be aware of how feelings can be distorted by the shield of an anonymous nickname and a computer monitor.

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Dating Online? Watch That Ad!

Aug 24

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New to Online Dating? Trying to find the man or woman of your dreams through the Virtual World? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile

Some people don’t believe me when I tell them that most problems with not enough Responses to your Ad can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. And then I often take them, real-time, to an Online Dating Site. I randomly start reading out profiles, and they cannot believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of spontaneity, of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you – which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in Online Dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous.

So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! (All examples are real)

..”I am a funny, witty person….”

Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile.

..”I was just bored, so wrote my profile here…”

A negative attitude. Instead, say, “I am new to this…”

…”I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) …person.”

Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile.

Define yourself concretely-better to say I am a Guitar player in a Band or I write Novels or I am a practising Doctor than I am Creative or Intelligent.

…”I want a guy who can make me laugh…”

Comes across as negative-you sound slightly depressed if you need someone just to make you laugh. Theres plenty of stuff on the TV to make you laugh, and you are not looking for a joker, you are looking for a boyfriend, a mate…remember?

…”I like dark haired men, but if you are blond and good-looking, write me anyway, maybe you can change my mind….”

Turn-off to blond men. Make up your mind, if you are looking for only dark haired men, just say that. Dont play both sides of the coin, generally backfires. Better not to say anything if you are not sure.

…”I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends…”

Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you wont like going out with someone just because they dont like walking the beach or watching TV with you) . Your hobbies is where you put these things, and more specifically-e.g. Camping, or Watching Basketball.

…”I am sexy, flirtatious,… I like kisses on my back, full body massages from my boyfriend/girlfriend…”

Generally speaking, keep the sexual innuendos out. You will have plenty of time to exchange many raunchy emails if you are addicted to writing sexual stuff… but in the first impression, keep it out. Think about it this way-would you say this to a guy or a girl in a bar who you meet for the first time? If not, then dont say it in your Ad either.

…”I am looking for a REAL man/woman, with all the letters of REAL…”

Everyone is real. Basically, dont worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but thats over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, and just meet the people. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.

…”I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring…”

No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you dont like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions.

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How To Get Your Ex Back Easily

Aug 17

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How to Get Your Ex Back Effortlessly

Sometimes relationships can go sour towards the point of the two of you breaking up, or occasionally one of you might feel like issues aren’t working out then walk out of the relationship. This usually outcomes to broken heartedness as well as depression. Fortunately, you are able to enjoy the magic of making up using the various tips on how to get your ex back. With these tips, you will be in a better position to patch things up together with your ex, and have a happier relationship.

Many people think that the best move for them to take after breaking up is pleading with their exes to take them back; little do they know that it is the last thing they should do at the moment. You should know that no individual desires a needy boyfriend or girlfriend. When you beg, plead or turn out to be too needy, you’ll turn out to be unattractive and this will slowly push your ex away from you. It will also make them believe that breaking up with you was the best decision they made. The best thing to do at this moment would be to take time away from your ex. Give them the space they need, and use this time to look back in the relationship to see what mistakes brought on the break up. With this in mind, you will be able to discover out how to get back together.

To be able to you’ll have to steer clear of the becoming a doormat. The doormat syndrome will be the scenario where you sacrifice all your happiness, and going all of the method to please your partner. You will also be performing or accepting everything your partner wants you to do or tells you with out questioning or with out generating some demands so that they are able to get back with you. A major sign that you are a doormat is asking your partner or ex not to leave because you’ll do anything for him or her. Prior to you go down this road, you should know that it’s extremely unattractive simply because your ex does not want someone who doesn’t stand for themselves and who cannot raise an opinion. When and in the event you get back together with your ex, probabilities are that you will end up in a smothering and unhappy relationship, and an additional breakup will soon follow.

Whilst it is logical for you to tell your ex which you still adore them and still care for the as soon as possible, it may not be the best factor to do under the circumstances. In performing so, you will be smothering them with affection and this may push the farther away, jeopardizing your probabilities of getting back together. An additional mistake you need to also avoid is texting and calling them all the time. This is particularly so, when you are drunk- do not text or call an ex because you will only make a fool out of your self and you’ll end up becoming too needy.

Whenever you act like your life is over when you break up will make your ex shed their respect for you, and you’ll not have the ability to enjoy the magic of making up. Get out and mingle with your buddies and meet new people. In so doing, you will not grant your ex all the powers and neither will you be their contingency strategy. Have time for your self by trying out new things and get back to your hobbies. When you do this, your ex will think things over and would wish to patch issues up with you. These easy things will also help you find out much more fascinating things about your life and you’ll be come more appealing to your ex. Use this time to get in shape and help eliminate the tension which you feel. This may make you much more confident and you’ll really feel better.

Ensure that you also learn about the things that caused the break up to ensure that you are able to enhance on your self to have the ability to get him or her back and make him or her stay. This may assist you to comprehend the things that your ex and you wanted in the relationship, and you’ll be in a position to provide them. Whenever you do these things, you will now be thinking logically, not letting the emotions impede your better judgment.

As soon as you’ve undergone all these phases, it is time for you to start connecting together with your ex so that you can feel the magic of making up. However, don’t tell them immediately that you want to get back with them. Just get back in contact with them after which show them how you’ve changed for the better. Take the relationship one step at a time, and you’ll be back with your ex sooner than you thought.

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