If you have ever ready ANY dating and seduction advice geared towards men, then you have no doubt come across the term alpha male over and over again. Alpha males are the ones who get the girls, so everyone wants to know how to be an alpha male. What does not get talked about much is, the fact that you can go a little overboard with this and become too much of an alpha male. And that can make it a little harder for you to attract and seduce women.

Why?

Because when you go overboard and try way too hard to be seen as an alpha male, you will almost always come across as more of an arrogant jerk than anything else. I have a friend who got caught up in this kind of thinking a few years ago and before you knew it, pretty much no one wanted to hang out with him and his success with women went WAY down.

Most women just thought he was kind of a jerk more than anything else.

Women love men with confidence. They love men who are secure with themselves because that makes them feel secure. However, when you are too arrogant, too cocky and just come off as being a jerk, suddenly they feel insecure. And if a woman feels insecure with you, chances are… she won’t want to be around you.

The other big problem that you will run into is that guys won’t like you. Now, you might be scratching your head and wondering why it matters if guys won’t like you. Well, most women have male friends. And if you are going out to clubs and bars and engaging with women who came out with their friends, a lot of the time there will be a guy in the group.

If he doesn’t like you, chances are he can find a way to shut you down. Not only that, but you need to be able to bond with other guys once in a while and even go out together to get women and if you are too much of an alpha male, you will be too competitive and end up making a situation where none of your buddies wants to hang out anymore.

You don’t have to be competitive with other men to get the girl.

When you are a real alpha male, you don’t have to be so competitive to get the girl. If she has a guy friend that she came out with, he will like you and not try to shut you down. And that is much easier than feeling like you have to compete with every guy in order to be seen as dominant or to be the alpha male. Real alpha males know how to seduce women without having to be overly competitive.

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You feel like you have gotten your confidence up to the point where you should have no problems at all walking up to a woman and making a lasting impression on her. You’ve memorized a few lines that are supposed to be proven and you even have a few routines to fall back on just in case one does not work, you have others to bring into the mix. So, you head out for the night, pretty amped up about your chances of being able to sweet talk and seduce a woman into bed with you. And then it happens.

The proven lines that are supposed to work on any woman you approach don’t seem to have much of an effect at all. The routines that are supposed to be original and effective are causing women to walk away from you, not wanting to have any more to do with you at all. Now, your confidence which had been stronger than ever is free falling and you don’t know how to bring it back or what to do from there. All you can think of is that it’s just going to be another night where you end up going home alone.

What happened?

Well, for starters, most proven lines that you read on the internet are anything but proven. Many times, they are just thought up by some guy writing out things that he *thinks* will be effective on all women. Or, if they did ‘work’ all it actually got him was a little bit of flirting, maybe a phone number but nothing more than that. And most routines that guys learn with the hopes of seducing women will not work on most women. And even if they did, they are used by enough guys that any woman you try them on probably has already seen it and heard it before.

What should you be doing instead?

Instead of being focused on pick up lines to seduce a woman or using routines that are supposed to be effective, why not instead learn how to use natural techniques to create rapport with a woman. When you come across as being totally natural, you are a lot less likely to look like just another guy hitting the clubs and bars looking to get lucky. You come across as a guy who just knows how to talk to women, a guy who women want to gravitate towards.

The game changes and you need to change with it.

A few years ago, there were a lot of lines and routines that you could have copied that would have been somewhat effective because most of the women you would have come across would not have seen or heard them before. Then, the internet exploded and those original lines and routines got passed around. Guys started using them left and right and women got wise to this.

Naturals don’t have to worry about being busted.

When you naturally build up the skills to pick up and seduce women, you don’t have to worry about being busted for using a line that lots of guys use. You don’t have to worry about using a routine that is straight out of a movie and get a lot of heat for it. You can just have an effect on women that causes them to feel naturally attracted to you and escalate that attraction to where she wants to have a little fun with you.

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On some level, I think we all know just how powerful words can be. String the right words together, and you can have an amazing amount of influence on another person. String the wrong ones together, and they can end up hating you, not trusting you, and not wanting to a thing to do with you at all. When it comes to seduction, words can be one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal, or they can make you look like just another creep, trying too hard to get a woman into bed.

What makes the difference between success and failure in this example?

Well, for one, if you think that seducing a woman with words means that you are going to be able to have some almost magical power or hypnotic ability… then you may already be setting yourself up for failure. Seducing a woman really has nothing much to do with magic or hypnosis. Take a look at what a natural does. He doesn’t go around using magic tricks, or trying to put women into trances to get them into bed. That’s what the ‘creepy’ guys do.

Yet, most naturals DO have a way with words, and that is one of the reasons why it seems so easy for them to be able to seduce a woman into bed.

If you want to have that ability, then you have to learn to do what they do ‘naturally,’ so that you can end up getting the same kinds of results that they do. Have you ever noticed how one person can say something to someone and completely offend them, and another person can say the same thing and have them cracking up and laughing?

What makes the difference there?

It’s all about the delivery.

I’m a HUGE fan of stand up comedy, there are many days where the only thing I watch on television is stand up comedy. When you watch it that much, you pick up on a lot of things. And one of the things is, the low level no name comedians who are never going to get a big name, get a movie to star in or their own television special– they usually tell practically the same kinds of jokes as the big names.

So, why do they flop and flounder?

Their delivery. They say the same thing and it’s just not nearly as funny as when a Chris Rock says it or a Dane Cook. And they also usually lack the stage presence to capture the crowd’s attention. The high level comedians, can usually save a joke that bombs by chastising the audience for not laughing. They say something like, “Come on, that ways funny… you know it” and the audience goes from quiet to rolling with laughter.

The low level comedians, they just bomb.

So, what does this really have to do with seducing a woman with words?

It’s simple, if you have the right presence, the right delivery… it has a dramatic effect on whether or not she likes you, is attracted to you… or if you just bomb in her eyes. That is what makes the difference between success and failure more than just about anything else.

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