When I have gotten the opportunity to talk to most guys about dating and attracting women, a funny thing becomes pretty clear right away. They don’t have anything that even remotely resembles a strategy to attract women. Instead of going about it in a really clearly defined way, they are more or less just hoping that they attract a woman. Is it any wonder that when they DO finally attract a woman, she usually turns out to be more of a drag than an enjoyment?

What I mean by this is… most guys end up in relationships that aren’t horrible, but aren’t that great, either. They don’t end up with their dream girl, they just end up with a girl. If you want to live out the normal life of a guy and end up with a woman who isn’t horrible to be with, but isn’t that great to be with either, then you might as well keep on doing what you have been doing all along. However, if you want to end up in a relationship with a woman who is fun to be with, anything but a drag to be around, then you need to have some kind of strategy.

As politically incorrect as it might be to say this… I think that all men know at least a few of their buddies who ended up getting into a relationship where they were whipped by their woman. You know, the buddy who couldn’t even hang out once a month with his friends because his girlfriend would throw a fit?

Guess what?

If you don’t have a strategy to attract women… you are probably going to end up just like that. Why? Because to have a strategy, also means that you know what it is that you want. And it’s hard to settle for anything less when you really know what you want, right? If, on the other hand, you are just hoping to be with any woman just to have a girlfriend or to be in a relationship… chances are you are not going to end up with the kind of woman you really desire to have in your life.

So, do you have a strategy to attract women, or are you just hoping that somehow it all works out and you magically end up with the right one?

I have a buddy who chose to pursue the typical, I’ll just hope that it works out kind of mindset. And he did find a pretty girl in college and they ended up getting married. A few years later, and he has to ask her permission for everything, and he can’t really do any of the stuff that he likes to do, cause she won’t let him. Can you say… whipped?

Point is, he would have never gotten in that situation had he developed a strategy to attract women and did not just take the first one he could get. And he wouldn’t have to ask her permission to do the things that he likes to do, or to just act like a man once in a while.

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Tags: Dating

I don’t know about YOU, but I absolutely hate the idea of getting rejected by women. I mean, we all know that it’s going to happen from time to time, but for some guys… it happens way too often! If you don’t want to get rejected by women, if you want to learn how to make women want YOU, then you need to keep on reading. I know that you probably think that you could not possibly have the ability to make women desire you… but you will be surprised at how easy it can be and you don’t even have to make that many drastic changes at all.

When you take a quick look at some of the guys that seem to do well with women, it’s easy to end up getting the wrong impression. It’s easy to get caught up in thinking that you need to look a certain way, drive a certain kind of car, or have been born with that naturally charismatic flair that some men have. If you keep on thinking that this is what you need to attract women… then the dating game is always going to seem unfair to you.

What if there was a way that you could stack the odds in YOUR favor and eliminate the possibility of rejection by a landslide?

I know, you are thinking that this is a stretch to say the least. However, there are distinct reasons for why a woman will reject a man, and if you know what they are and how to avoid them… then you really DO stack the odds in your favor. Will you eliminate the possibility of getting rejected by a woman 100 percent?

Not likely.

Can you cut it down so that you can confidently approach a woman and not feel like she is going to shoot you down?

You bet.

- One of the most common reasons why a woman will reject a guy is not necessarily because he isn’t her type or because she does not find him attractive in some way, many times it is simply because of the WAY that he approached her. Like, if you are in a bar and you walk up behind her and tap her on the shoulder and when she turns around… you are standing there with your hands in your pockets and an almost frightened look on your face. That’s the kind of approach that will basically set you up to get rejected almost every single time.

- Another common reason for why a woman will reject a guy is because he does not know how to talk to her. Of course, he knows how to talk, he can open his mouth and put together a few words. What I mean is that when he talks to her… she gets bored in about 10 seconds and from there… he’s done unless he can find a way to get her attention back. Make this mistake and you will get shot down, if even on the surface she was feeling some attraction towards you.

- A third common reason for why a woman will reject a guy is because he waits for her to lead. This is the plight of the shy guy, one of the major reasons why shy guys have such a hard time dating and meeting women. It’s the natural place of the male to lead the interaction. Isn’t it kind of weird to walk over to a woman and then expect her to lead the conversation? If you want to eliminate rejection… you have to become a leader… a true ALPHA MALE.

Like I said before, it’s not possible to eliminate rejection from women completely. But, you sure can stack the odds in your favor when you know what works and what doesn’t. Of course, there are many more dating tips for men that you can use to eliminate the possibility of getting rejected by a woman and stack the deck in your corner, but I can only put so much into one article.

Tags: Dating

If I were to make a list of all of the things that men commonly struggle with in terms of attracting and dating women, the ability to be able to approach a woman, have complete confidence in themselves and make a good impression, would certainly be in the top 5. One of the things that has always kind of surprised me is, how so may guys who you would assume would have no problems at all with this, count approaching a woman as the one area that they really feel like they need to be able to get handled.

Remember back when you were younger and all your friends would have to kind of pump you up to go and talk to a girl you really liked? Well, what happens when you get a little older, and you don’t have anyone to help you get pumped up? Do you just let a beautiful woman walk out of your life before you even get the chance to meet her, exchange names and phone numbers or get to go on a date with her?

Is it really that hard to approach a woman?

The answer is YES if you allow yourself to get nerve racked thinking about it. Or if you allow yourself to make it seem like she must be out of your league and that there is no hope for a guy like you to be able to get any kind of good attention from her. Now, if you are able to get that under control, tell yourself the TRUTH, that you probably DO have a good chance of at least making a good impression and having some chemistry with her… the approach no longer seems to be something to think about.

It’s all in your mind!

Of course, I am not going to feed you any pseudo self help talk and say that you can literally approach any woman you want and be able to win her over. There’s a good chance that if you were to try and approach a hottie like Megan Fox, then you really don’t stand much of a chance. That’s okay, you are only human. However, if your goal is to be able to go out to your local clubs and bars and be able to approach women without feeling like the only outcome is that you are going to get shot down, then that is definitely something that you can do.

So, is it really that hard to approach a woman?

Not so much, when you think about it. It’s actually gaining control of your own mind, not allowing yourself to be talked out of it, or not allowing yourself to feel like rejection is the only possible outcome. Once you get past this hard part of being able to let yourself walk up to a woman you want to get to know without all of the negative thoughts and self talk, approaching women doesn’t seem so bad after all. And with the right techniques, you are practically assured that she will feel some attraction towards you.

Tags: Dating

I want you to know right off the bat, that I am going to write this article a little tongue in cheek. Meaning, there is going to be some humor in it. However, you would be surprised at how many guys do ask their girlfriends or girls that they want to get with really bad questions. You know, the kind of question that changes the course of the conversation completely and is an obvious turn off? That’s the kind of questions that you need to avoid like the plague!

So, here are 3 questions that you NEVER want to ask your girlfriend:

1. (About her best friend) Don’t you think that Audrey was looking HOT tonight?

Some guys will ask a question like this out of sheer stupidity. Others will do it to kind of explore what their girlfriend is going to say. Basically, they are hoping that she is going to say YES, and then say that she is totally open to having a threesome with her. Of course, that only happens in adult films and on college campuses, lol. Seriously though, most of the time… this is NOT the kind question that you need to be asking your girlfriend.

2. Those pants look TIGHT on you, have you put on any weight?

Now sometimes this gets said out of straight up ignorance but with good intentions. Like, when you are happy that she’s gotten a little thicker below the waist and you really think it looks good to you. Problem is, she hears that and it’s like you just called her fat in a very bad way. No matter how good your intentions are, and no matter how good you think she looks with a little more weight on, don’t ask that question!

3. I’m broke, can I borrow some money to go out and have fun?

Take your alpha male status and watch it drop in an instant if you ask this question. You are kind of putting her in the provider role when you do this, and that’s not a good thing. Not if you want to keep your alpha male status going in the relationship. That doesn’t mean you can’t take a little money if she offers it to you, but asking for an allowance is not a good thing for a man to do. Well, most of the time.

Oh, the trouble that some men get into with women, and it does not just apply to your girlfriend, but with any woman you want to get with, want to date, have a hook up with. You have to know how to talk to a woman the right way, without turning her off and asking the RIGHT questions, the kind that open her up and the kind that make her want YOU.

It’s important to know what NOT to say to a woman, but it’s just as important to learn how to talk to women and ask the RIGHT kinds of questions…

Tags: Dating