How To Get Your Boyfriend Back If They Are Dating Someone Else
Finding out ways to get your ex back is similar to every other skill; it can to be learned. The overwhelming pain you feel when you break up with the man you love is totally natural, especially when there’s another woman in the picture. To start with you will likely feel , hurt and betrayed, possibly consumed with anger and jealousy, those feelings are quite normal and I can commiserate with you because I’ve been there. But try not to lose heart! Try and find solace in the reality that 90% of broken relationships can be repaired once you know what you should do. If your ex is dating someone else there is still hope, you just have to arm yourself with the right information and think carefully before you do something that you regret.
Don’t just jump into this blindly, you might only have one opportunity to get your ex back, and there is a right and a wrong way to approach the problem so try taking some expert advice and that way you’ll make sure you don’t make any foolish blunders.
The worst thing you can possibly do at this stage is to shout, cry, or hurl abuse; I realize you will feel better for a while afterwards but trust me you’ll do more harm than good. Or even worse, the weeping and pleading act ; please spare your dignity or you’ll end up looking like an insecure fool.
You will probably find the following step somewhat challenging but it is part of the plan; realize that your relationship is over for now and grant your ex some space. Whatever you do don’t spend the next few weeks harrassing him on the telephone, or following him everywhere he goes. He’ll begin to think you’re an emotionally unstable stalker and you don’t want that!
Rule number one; keep quiet and don’t say anything derogatory about his new girlfriend; you know it will get back to him sooner or later and you’ll cause him to be more protective towards her. You don’t want him to see you as jealous and insecure so be supportive of his new relationship; it may seem to be a strange request but it is all part of the plan.
After the dust has settled, you need to start making friends again. Keep it on a friendship only basis and work on him until you have his trust back. At some point he’ll start to see you as his closest friend and confidante, this is exactly what you’re aiming for. Yet again resist all temptation to criticize his new girlfriend, in fact if he discusses her at all, you need to stay totally neutral. Once his new relationship starts to deteriorate, you’ll be the one he turns to.
One more thing you will have to do is to restart his lost desires for you. Remember just how things were when you initially fell in love. What was it that attracted him to you? Was it your looks, your cool frame of mind, or your lovely smile? I’m sure you’ll know what it was and if it’s gone, you are going to need to discover how to become truly irresistible to him again.
It may seem that getting your ex back is not possible but with the right strategies it’s astounding what can be achieved. If you’re absolutely sure he is the one for you then it’s actually worth learning these tactics. If you make sure that you follow the proven advice, you’ll soon have your ex back in your arms, even if your ex is seeing someone.