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’100 Sex Games For Couples’ Review

Feb 21

Posted by James Fargo in Reviews, sex | No Comments

One of the greatest challenges in your long term relationship is attempting to keep things fun and exciting in the bedroom.

However, work or your kids or a myriad of other tasks and chores that need to be done often interfere with the time you need to stoke the flames of passion in your sex life. If you are like me you know how busy life can be so it only makes sense to find new ideas that can be used over and again in your list of love making techniques.

Into this situation comes “100 Sex Games for Couples”. This is nothing outrageously kinky as sex games are a great way to keep your lovemaking fresh and original and may also have a longer reuse value than the variety of sex positions and lovemaking techniques.

Does this e-book by Michael Webb actually deliver on this promise though with enough good sex games to keep things interesting?

The book starts well with an introduction about how intimacy is spiritual, emotional & physical covering more aspects than some guides that gloss over straight to the physical aspect. This sets the tone for the entire book as the games are about ‘making love’ and not just a physical act of sexual intercourse.

The actual games that follow are divided into two sections which confused me for a second because there were only 33 games not a hundred until I saw that each game had multiple variations taking the total to 100. These variations have different rules and variation on the original concept which I thought was interesting because you could use the same game with a twist just when your partner might have been getting used to the original to keep them on their toes! Some of the games are more entertaining than others like any comprehensive list but they all had merit and some were very imaginative and very sexy.

For example there is an exciting guessing game, a passionate night of lovemaking but starting from an unusual location, an pleasurable storytelling game which I quite liked and even a card game with a twist (no, not just strip poker). They range from games involving food to communicating, touching and sharing intimate moments.

All in all, the book is well worth the asking price, considering it could be the very thing that brings you closer together as a couple!

So, is this book worth it? For the small amount it costs and the amazing variety of ideas that will give you many nights of pleasure and togetherness it is a great bit of extra reading that can liven up your sex life for years.

I recommend this guide to anyone looking for something new if things have gone a bit stale or even to those who are having good sex but want it to be great!

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Sexpertzone’s Female Orgasm Guide Review

Feb 19

Posted by James Fargo in Reviews, sex | No Comments

Finding a good guide on how to give women great orgasms is a lot harder than you think. We searched the internet and found many such guides but most were badly written, poorly illustrated, sleazy or even just plain wrong!

Thankfully I found Sexpertzone’s Female Orgasm Guide that stands out from the crowd!

First off it must be said that this is a very physical guide, it does not dwell on the emotional or spiritual aspect of lovemaking and instead opts for a rigorous approach to the fundamental physical aspects which in some ways is disappointing as the value of the emotional side of lovemaking is very important.

In the flip side of this no other guide is as comprehensive, practical and well set out as this guide making it a hard choice as our second placed guide only missing out because of its narrower focus.

So what is actually in this guide then?

The guide focuses around every aspect of the female orgasm revealing that women can have 3 types of climaxes which they explain in full. They also explain and show exactly how you can achieve these using all techniques available to you.

What makes it stand out is the exactness of the information along with diagrams and pictures to let you know exactly how, when and why to thrust or lick. It reads like a car owner’s manual in some ways which may not seem very flattering but if you struggle to give your women great orgasms you will know this is exactly what you need.

They boast that they cut out all the ‘fluff’ to give you concise and useful information and they are spot on with this claim making this an excellent guide for those confused by the female orgasm but also for anyone curious to expand their physical repertoire.

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5 Better Lovemaking Tips for Steamy Sex

Jan 14

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, sex | 1 Comment

If you want great, hot, passionate sex and not just the same routine over and again then pay attention to these better lovemaking tips for both men and women!

1. Discover Your Partners ‘Hidden Zones’

While there are some pretty obvious places like the breasts, genitals, inner thighs, lips and so on many people do not realize that both men and women have other areas that are very sensitive to kisses and caresses that can drive them wild and intensify their orgasms if done right.
These places vary from person to person but try paying attention to the ears, neck, arms, back and other less obvious places to see what they like then stimulate those areas gently during foreplay for better love making when he time comes.

2. Use Romance & Mood

This may sound cheesy and cliché for many people (mainly guys!) but women especially react very strongly to mood and romance so do not dismiss it! Candles, flower petals, music, fragrances and so on can be used to make a sexual experience something SPECIAL not just another romp in the sack.
The trick is to not be too obvious about it, make it a surprise on occasion and keep things fresh! Women also do not dismiss this, guys do not react as much as women to romance but if you are waiting in bed with candles and rose petals and sexy underwear it is amazing how much the scene immediately infects a mans mind with the same sense of romance.

3. Sensual, Sexual Massages

Again it may seem clichéd but the joy of touching and caressing the body can raise arousal levels in both men and women and has the benefit of relaxing as well as exciting at the same time. Make it a sensual and sexual massage though with plenty of focus near but not on the erogenous zones because anticipation and suspense of the main course is a massive part of building excitement and amazing orgasms.

4. Engage in More Oral Sex

Oral sex is not just for porn stars but is an amazing and selfless way of giving your partner pleasure and even build trust and strengthen your relationship by allowing someone’s mouth down there. This can also help relieve guys of performance anxiety and help give women orgasms who find it hard to reach during intercourse too.
Some tips for better oral sex are as follows:

  • WOMEN – Do not just dive in and start sucking away like a Hoover, while guys love the sensation you should start slower, with soft touches and a playful attitude to build anticipation until they beg for more then take it further for more powerful orgasms.
  • MEN – A mistake men make is that they try to use their tongue like a thrusting device when trying to stimulate the clitoris and vagina. IT is better and more pleasurable during this sort of lovemaking to lick the sensitive spots like an ice cream cone with wide flat licks, for more variety try to spell the alphabet with your tongue around their clitoris!

5. Constantly explore and try new things

More than all the other better lovemaking tips here for better sex this is the most important to your long term sexual fulfillment and happiness. You do not need to be hanging from the ceiling wearing kinky get ups and screaming dirty talk at each other to be new and different (unless that is what your into!) but you can always experiment a little.
A new position, a different place to make love, light role playing, a foreplay game and many more things can add something new and exciting to a love life that might get stale because no matter how much and how hard you thrust and sweat what REALLY matters is how your partner feels about this and variety will open your options up for the future and even if they do not work as well as you hoped it is new and exciting to try!

So if you want to spice up your sex life and have better lovemaking for years and years to come with sexy, passionate nights that will strengthen your relationship click below to discover how to achieve this!

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Want Better Lovemaking? – 7 Mistakes To Avoid When Making Love

Jan 8

Posted by James Fargo in Articles, sex | 2 Comments

Everyone wants to have great, hot, steamy sex every time but the reality is that sex in a long term relationship can get a bit stale. Better lovemaking becomes the goal of many couples in this situation who frantically look for new things to try but end up making some bad lovemaking mistakes that actually makes their experience less than what it was before!

In the interests of better love making everywhere here are some of the most common mistakes that lovers tend to making in their quest for better sex.

1. Being Too Scared/Embarrassed To Talk About New Things

This is all too common and really shouldn’t be as the person we are making love to should be the person we can communicate with about these things best! Sometimes we may be worried about what they may think however but for the most part your partner will crave new things too so go ahead and ask! It does not need to be crude or kinky but there are thousands of ways to add excitement and passion to your lovemaking that you can explore only if you talk and become comfortable with it!

2. Convincing Them To Have Sex

Oh boy, men mainly make this mistake, but sometime women too! If your lover is not in the mood for sex as they are too tired or distracted then trying to talk them into it is not going to work. Instead you have to raise their arousal levels slowly because when the body becomes sexually interested it releases adrenaline into the system giving energy to make love.

  • Ladies – If your man seems disinterested in sex but you need some love don’t just expect a man to jump at the chance if they really are tired. Instead pay some attention to his manhood by fellatio or by hand. Men are also visual creatures so wearing something sexy or nothing at all will help! An interesting point is that a man’s testosterone levels are highest at 9-10 AM during the day so this is the best time to get him turned on.
  • Men – Women are very different from us, do not rush in to the obvious sexual areas to turn them on, leave the breasts and crotch alone and concentrate on looking into her eyes, kissing her neck lightly and stroking area near the obvious sexual ones gently. Go slow and when they react positively move to kissing the mouth and so on.

3. Rushing Foreplay To Get To Intercourse

Again many people look at men as the main offenders here but sometimes women do the same and both end up missing out on something amazing. Did you know that lot’s of foreplay actually adds to the intensity of an orgasm for both men AND women?
The more you kiss, touch, caress and so forth before the act of intercourse the more aroused we become and more feel good chemicals in our body are produced or build up for the climax. This means that it is ALWAYS a good idea to just slow it down a little and enjoy playing some games with each other and pleasuring them without intercourse for as long as you can before you just have to move on!

4. Getting Sex Toys Or Porn For Your Lovemaking

There is a time and a place for these things but sometimes we tend to rush into these things to soon when we hit a rough patch sexually and it backfires.
Why? Because you do not your lover to end up looking more forward to the plastic toy or watching the porn than actually finding pleasure in each others bodies! Before you include any of these things you need to know how to please your partner in all ways before introducing something else … use these things as spice and variety not as a central part of your lovemaking.

5. Trying To Climax Your Woman From Just Intercourse

Ok Guys and girls listen up. Men, you might feel less of a man if you can not satisfy your girl from intercourse but the reality is that this is not always going to happen and it is not your fault! Some women can not achieve orgasm through intercourse even and those that can sometimes have difficulty depending on a range of factors including the time of the month, hormone levels, mood and so on.
Girls, by the same token do not put pressure on men to make you orgasm from intercourse as there are many other ways to climax if you let your man try some things!
One of the best ways to do this is by mastering the art of cunnilingus (going down on your women). If done right all pressure is off you on the lovemaking because you can make her climax with just your mouth and tongue.

6. Trying For Simultaneous Orgasms

This is seriously overrated, instead of being some mystical moment of combined pleasure where you come as one it ends up being a labor of timing and holding off and stuffing around and when it does happen … that connection is not actually there.
Instead you should focus completely on satisfying the woman’s needs first because women take a lot longer and are harder to climax than a man most of the time. Once you both learn to give totally to the other in lovemaking it becomes even more intense as the connection comes from being able to give such an experience and take it in with all your senses.

That’s the secret.

7. Do What Works Best … Every time

A little sarcasm there … sorry! While you might understand you need to break out of a routine for better lovemaking some people are afraid to vary too much thinking if it ain’t broke why fix it? The reason it ‘wear and tear’ to take the machine metaphor a step further, while it may not break or fail a boring sex life even if it is still enjoyable can have dire effects on your relationship especially if you also make mistake number one.
Instead be open to change a bit at a time, no need to try new things all the time every time but without spice and variety and excitement sex loses that spark that brings couples together so closely at the beginning of a relationship.

So what is the secret to better lovemaking? The answer is having enough knowledge, tips and ideas to spice up your sex long into the future because the only way to recreate the excitement and enthusiasm that we once had is to make it new again in small ways every time.

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