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10 Ways To Be Romantic

When we have been in relationship for a while the romance seems to dwindle and both parties in the relationship think that the other should be more romantic. You read so often that the man should be the romantic one, and maybe 50 years ago this would have been so but this is no longer the case. Think back to when you first met. The first dates, wining an dining, making an effort to look your best, breakfast in bed, long weekends having frantic sex. Don?t you wish it was the same? Well I bet your partner also does. Instead of waiting for him to make the first move (after all we know how slow men are. No offence guys) YOU take the lead and add a bit of romance into your relationship.

Here are ten ways to show off your romantic side.

1. Pick up the phone: Give him a ring while he is at the office just to let him know that you are thinking of him. Or if you are confident with phone sex tell him what you are going to do to him once he gets home and in turn what you would like him to do to you.

2. Fill the stocking: Men love sexy lingerie just as much as women if not more. Let him know how much you want him by getting out your best knickers, team them with a pair of fishnets, stilettos and seduce him tonight.

3. Feed his heart: You know the old saying “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach!” Well you better believe it because it works every time. Get out the best china, set the table with candles, put on some soft music and prepare his favorite meal. You won?t even need to think of dessert because this is where he will become romantic and sweep you of to the bedroom.

4. Flirt: When was the last time you actually flirted with your partner? Go out in public (to dinner, to a party or nightclub) and try it. It will boost both your egos and bring back those old feelings of lust for one another. Think like a single person and see what happens.

5. Bedroom boudoir: Set the mood in your bedroom. Clear out all the clutter, change the bed linen (bring in some silk sheets perhaps) and fill the room with scented candles. Stand a bottle of your favorite bubbly in some ice, lay your sexiest lingerie on the bed and keep a box of his favorite chocolates near by. This is also an inexpensive way to give your bedroom a new look.

6. Use toys: If you want to add some spice to your love making then what better way than to introduce some props. We are not talking about 12″ dildos (unless you want to, that is) it can be something as small as a silk scarf or as daring as vibrators. Your man will need never be asked to make an effort again.

7. Watch a flick: Rent a romantic movie, order a take away, get out a bottle of your favorite wine, take the phone of the hook turn out the lights and snuggle into each other on the sofa in front of the TV. The romantic flick will soon have the two of you in the mood for love.

8. Love letters: Leave him little notes in his pocket, on his pillow, next to his mother anywhere that he will find them that will give him a nice surprise.

9. Kiss him all over his body? slowly

10. 3 little words: Tell him that you love him at least once a day. This will keep the love there even if you haven?t always got time to express it, those 3 little words is all that you need.

How To Avoid The Perils Of Online Dating

Finding a ‘date’ has never been easier. The computer age has revolutionised even the way we think now about how we live our lives, yet because of it our lives are becoming more and more insular. With the arrival of social networking sites such as Twitter, facebook and Bebo, people are content to stay behind the comfort zone of their laptop rather than go out into the real world and talk to each other. Let’s be honest it, we lads were never that good at the face to face chat up lines, and you girls where sick of dancing round your handbags until the next looser came along. Oh yes, it’s easy to find a date in the 21st century online dating revolution, but finding and bringing it to completion are two completely separate things.

With so many people doing online dating these days, thankfully the old stigma has been laid to rest, and we are all ‘cool’ about the concept of searching through pictures and sometimes even reading the occasional profile. But why is it that as a product, the Dating sites themselves are embarrassed about the service that they provide? With something as important as helping people find potential partners for life, most of the sites stress that this matchmaking service is completely free. It is only after you have taken the trouble to put in your personal details and start looking round the site, that the messages appear. ‘Join now for £xxxx a month. ’To take advantage of this service, you need to be a full member,’ etc, etc.

If you saw a sign outside a supermarket saying ‘free food,’ would you be suspicious? Similarly if you bought an item from a shop would you be surprised if they actually asked you to pay? The truth is that both the dating sites and their ‘free users’ are fooling themselves because in this world you don’t get anything for nothing. So come on sites, let’s stop giving the industry a bad name and start being honest with the punters, and site users try to realise that the dating game is a service which you have to pay for, and rightly so.

People who are seriously using dating sites to find a partner have to realise that in general they would spend more on a couple of good bottles of wine, than 6 months membership of most dating agencies. The fact that they have no one to drink the wine with is nobody’s fault but their own if they use this mean approach to matchmaking.

Loneliness is a terrible thing, and the computer is an ideal way of meeting people for fun, friendship and even romance. But let’s be very clear about the way it works; you either put on your best clothes and go out and do it in the harsh real world or pay for the comfort of bringing the real world to you.

Ways To Know If Your Ex Lover Wants You Back

The end of a relationship can be a good and bad thing. It can signal a fresh start when things have not being going right but it could also be unnecessary when a good relationship ends on a bad note. More at get over a break up.

Often bad timing can be the cause of the relationship ending and you really just need some space. Getting away from each other may make you think that you should really be together and you are left in the awkward place of wondering if your ex feels the same way.

In order to gauge whether your ex wants you back then you should look out for some signs from them. If they pay you more attention than they did when you were close to breaking up then this could indicate they have had a change of heart. It may also mean they are lacking affection so it cannot be the only thing you look for. But this is one thing to look out for when you meet up. Visit want ex back.

At this point it is important to take things slowly. Even if your ex seems to be indicating they want you back you do not want to make any rash decisions. Try to arrange things to that you spend some time together as friends in order to work out whether the feelings will last or are just temporary.

An important thing to keep in mind is that often when you are lonely after a break up you think about the great times you had together without thinking about the problems that led you to split up. If you start the relationship again without dealing with these issues then it will probably not last too long. For this reason you should aim to remain friends for a time until you know that you both are committed to making it work again. Check out get your ex back.

While spending time together will be beneficial you should not spend all of your time together. Give each other enough space to think about what you want and see if you really miss each other when you are apart. Sometimes you will find that you actually like the time to yourself and begin to move on. Other times you could be sure that you want to get back into the relationship. You will not know unless you give each other time to think.

Having given yourself some space you should be in a good position to decide what you both want. If you decide to remain apart then at least you know you tried to make it work. If you begin the relationship again then you may well have worked through the problems to a large extent.

Often the problem lies in not talking things through properly. If you do decide to get back together you must keep this going and talk through any problems instead of letting them grow into something bigger.

How I Found My Life Partner

This is a tale of a man who spent most of his days finding a perfect partner for himself on the Cyberspace. Yes that man is me. I just thought I will share the story of my love with you. How a man who used to spend his hours looking for someone is now planning romantic getaways with my wife.

It started in 2007 when there was a buzz of facebook all around in the UK and some of the dating sites were also marketing themselves on TV and on the Internet. Facebook was making it mark in the UK when I was just starting to learn how to build my own Website. I was recently single and was a bit depressed on my recent love loss. While browsing the net one day I found this dating site so I decided to give it a go and register on it. Later after creating my profile I started to browse the website and check if I can find anything. First few days I browsed to see what kind of people I can find there, who matches the best with my likings.

Then one day while checking my email I got an email from the dating site saying I have received a message from someone. I logged into the dating site to check who it was from, it was from a girl near my area, who had a lovely profile and cute picture of herself. She also sent me a very sweet but short message so I replied back and we kept on emailing each other for next few months. It was all going fine till the day my computer had a virus in it and I couldn’t use the PC for few weeks till it was fixed. Also during that time I had to leave to Italy for business purpose.

After returning I fixed my computer, then I logged in to the dating site to see whether the girl has send me any messages. When I logged on I found out she already terminated her account. I was totally gutted as she sounded interesting and she was very beautiful.

Then it was summer time the day of my Birthday. I planned a barbecue party with my mates, I was about put the first meat on to the barbecue I heard the door bell ring. There was a delivery man outside my door holding a medium sized package. He checked my details and told me the package was mine. I opened it up and there was the BIGGEST SURPRISE of all time. The present was sent from the girl who I used to chat to on the internet dating site. I completely forgot that I gave her my Website address in which it had my personal details. The gift had a little note on it with her name and number. This is all I needed and now we are married and planning a romantic weekend away to Italy. Weekend away for couples to India.